birdy1600 (Login birdy1600) Posted Jun 2, 2011 7:49 PM
here is my story. I never DID do OE IVF but I can imagine how you feel. In a way it was a blessing that I did not know to recall when I was involved. AND EVEN SO when I saw the embryos, flourishing, healthy, dividing with my husband sperm. Yes, there was pain. YES there was regret and sadness. I thought "I want to see us together like that. I just do"
that's the honest truth.
But here is what you MUST hold on to: pictures of babies, holding a baby doll (I'm not kidding I did, to get my body in a nurturing mood) the END result is SO worth it. now I look back on that moment. it was blip in the radar. My baby is the greatest thing ever.
One step at a time.
You ARE doing things! getting rest, getting your body ready. and TRUST me, if this takes WHEN this takes it's ALL ABOUT YOU!