My dh is not convinced but is willing to go along b/c I'm just not ready to pursue adoption. I sure hope SG proves my dh wrong. My RE blamed the failures on bad embryos. I actually think my clinic over stimmed our donor. Our donor did 4 prior cycles and produced 10-12 eggs on each cycle and cycles resulted in two twin pregnancies and two singleton pregnancies all leading to live births. When our clinic was stimming her twice they had to lower her stims and she ended up producing 19 eggs but we only got three embryos. my theory is that that impacted egg quality.