GulfGal (Login GulfGal) Posted Feb 18, 2012 12:26 AM
It sounds like you like her better too, you've just been scared by people telling you not to go with an unproven donor. Remember, every proven donor was unproven at some point.
I panicked about using an unproven donor, but her numbers were good and I felt that "connection". The clinic was also really happy about her numbers and was very pleased at how young she was (she was not a clinic donor, so it wasn't some unproven they were trying to push on me), so I went for it, and I couldn't be happier with my resulting little ones (and have 11 blasts in freezer, in case I decide later that the ones I have aren't enough).
Good luck in your decision.