lauranz (Login phoebegrace) Posted Feb 27, 2012 10:33 PM
and here in New Zealand it is very hard to find donors. I'm glad she was honest now that we're a few years down the track but it was very hard to deal with at the time.
it is very complex to have a donor who is clearly going to be in your child's life but also could well be the ultimate scenario...stay as honest as you can with each other, would be my 2c worth..
Good luck and keep us posted.