Pinkduck (Login duckfamily) Posted Feb 28, 2012 1:41 PM
We had a DD from her donation (in Australia where it is illegal to pay donors). My other 3 kids are from an anon clinic donor in the USA. My SIL and my brother have since divorced but it is a "happy" divorce and I still see her when I visit. For us it is a bit different to you as we are not in constant contact. I love that I have a known donor and one that truly saw her donation as a gift - no strings attached. Her kids are my DD's 1/2 sisters technically but she always refers to them as cousins - she gets it totally. I imagine a psych evaluation will be needed with you, your DH, her and her DH - and any other relevant parties. This is a good opportunity to brainstorm scenarios eg., what happens if she donates and then can't have kids herself. Best of luck - even through a divorce it has worked really well for us all.