I feel absolutely terrible! I had no idea that my post would spark so much controversy. I had no intent at all to upset anyone at all and feel awful that it was such a knife to anyone. I actually meant to post it on the pink board but it was very late last night (NZ time) and I mis posted it on the yellow.
I'm actually fairly new to this board and to posting at all so wasn't aware of the little extensions I should have put in my subject line. I'm so sorry for upsetting anyone. Perhaps I shouldn't be on this board at all with a child?
I do have a DD that is a complete miracle and should not have happened so I am extremely blessed in this way, but I am now having to use DE for number two. I should have thought, but as you know, grief is grief and I was having a tough day. I'm so very very sorry.
I realize now, having thought on it, that it was a completely insensitive post and it is true that while I was going through IF prior to my first child, I would have been angered by my post too. I completely understand the responses that may have seemed harsh. You were not out of line at all.