I was in my own chaos with the end of pregnancy and impending birth (baby now 1+ month), but I was so sad to read your news a while back. I was shocked. You are so supportive, and I'm routing for you along with everyone else here. I know how it is to exhaust your resources. I've had a great few years with income or I'm sure I wouldn't have my son.
Hang in there, and I will be checking in to see how you are.