I am pretty sure that my clinic is anonymous with the exception of photos and bio/psycho/social. Since most likely I will not meet the donor & ask her quesitons directly it is important for me to gain a sense of who she is. It is important for me that she leads with her heart and is feeling centered rather than cerebrally centered. Intelligence is very important to both my DH and I yet I also know that someone with only a HS education can be extremely intelligent but for many reasons did not go on to get an advanced degree. So I will not r/o a donor with only a HS education. I will be looking closely at how they responded on the bio/psycho/social and try to gain a sense of them from their photos. I trust my sense of people so at least I can rely on that. However, if I could ask them a question directly it would be "Who are you?" "Tell me about you and what makes you - You?"..