I never felt that way. I have posted this before on the pink board but now that I have my DD I would not trade her for anything. If you told me I could go back and have a baby with my DNA but the catch is that I could not have my DD, that is a non-starter. She is the baby I was meant to have. Others may not have felt this but I bonded with her from the beginning. In total, I had 15 embies transferred into me over 4 fresh and 2 frozen transers (4 OE embies and and 11 DE embies) and I felt like all of them were my babies. It did not matter OE vs. DE -- they were mine and I wanted all of them. I had some agnst right after my OE IVF did not work but once I started working on my DE cycles, it felt no different to me. I was not a GC, I was a mommy trying to get her baby.