RaineyCat (Login RaineyCat) Posted Jun 19, 2012 1:13 AM
I have the double whammy of needing DE and a GC, but the child that arrives will be 100% mine. In fact, we when we had a miscarriage a few months ago, the GC was fine. I, on the other hand, was completely grief stricken because it was my baby who died. My loss was very deep - I couldn't work or function for a couple of weeks. In fact, I didn't know how much I could love a child until she wasn't alive anymore.