THK (Login perthkitty) Posted Aug 24, 2012 3:26 AM
I"m sorry your mom said that to you. She is probably trying to 'save you' from hurt so it will be well intentioned.
But it doesn't matter how many roadblocks or brickwalls or hidden rabbit holes you slip down... KEEP GOING!
ONe or two failed cycles... I had 8 failed cycles and kept going.
My sister told me 'you can give up but what are you going to do with the next 40 plus years?' She also said 'what is stopping you from doing another cycle? Failure? Forget all that stuff just do it and don't think about it'.
So... I did and yep after 8 failed cycles and six years I"m looking at my boy watching a cartoon right now (he is nearly 2 years old).
So I say to you right this second... keep at it. Keep going and you will get there.
we are here for you 100%,
best wishes, THK