This is loads of helpful stuff to think about. I really appreciate all of this.
I think I can exclude the sperm as I have been using DS and at this point have used 3 or 4 or so different donors - all proven with pregnancies.
I've been wondering about infection and am thinking of asking for broad spectrum antibiotics anyway.
My last real thorough blood work is from a little over a year ago (spring of 2011).
As I mentioned above, I am homozygous for the A1298C MFTHR variant (the less severe of the variants) and am taking folgard.
I've never had NK cells tested, which I think I will ask about. I think I am at least going to request another hysteroscopy before I make a decision on what to do next. I had one a couple of months after the second trimester loss, which was normal, but I am wondering if maybe it just took longer for scar tissue from the procedure to develop.
The losses were all with my own crappy eggs. The second trimester loss (17 weeks) was due to a chromosomal abnormality (triploidy), and I assume the chemicals were also due to chromosomal issues.
thank you again, Daisy. This is lots of helpful stuff.