and I wanted to let everyone know that it was a BFN.
I wasn't sure how I'd feel if we ended up with a negative beta. I didn't really have any real highs or lows during the cycle. I was very optimistic and positive, and I still feel that way. I believe that we will have another child in the future, but since I am not the keeper of time, I am not sure when that will be. I do know that we have a responsibility to do all we can do to make sure the process progresses. So yes we are disappointed, but we are happy to be able to move forward. I hope I don't sound callous, because this whole process -- each step -- is a big deal... I just feel like this is one of the steps in this IVF process that we unfortunately, are having to walk through. We'll see what the next one is.
Thanks for all your support through this cycle...You have all been truly wonderful. I'll be leaning on you all again as we move forward...
Hugs to all!!!
This message has been edited by Veesha on Apr 14, 2011 2:50 PM
I'm so sorry that this cycle did not work for you, but you have the best attitude. I know it really helps that you are in a guaranteed program to move forward and attempt again. It is also definitely a learning process. I, like you, just knew that I may not have success on my first attempt. I guess b/c I had lining issues as well as others. It so amazing how mechanical this process becomes and it is a wonder that anyone can conceive on their own.
Sending many hugs and will be cheering you on the next go around. Be good to yourself.
I so wish it was a better result for you. Despite the bad news, still your lovely post inspires me. I hope I can have a little of your strength as I move forward with my first attempt at DE soon. I believe too in your sentiments that you will have another child in the future and wish you luck with your next step.
I'm so sorry. You sound so strong, and have a great attitude, not to mention you're a great cheerleader for the rest of us. Treat yourself a little bit extra as you regroup. I look forward to your future posts.
You just don't know what your kindness, words, thoughts, prayers mean to me...then again, you do know. We are all going through this process together. A win is a win for all of us, and a loss is the same.
Thank you for being there as encouragement, as a sounding board and as a cheering squad. You are all the absolute best, and if I could reach out and hug each and every one of you...I would.