There are a few of us here . Here is the link to ASRM website for donor agencies . You could contact them and ask for east Indian donors
Also greateggs.com is another website with a listing for donor agencies .
Asian egg donation and donor network alliance are two other options that you can start with .
As for telling , so far I have decided not to tell anyone now . If I get lucky , I do plan to tell my future children when they are quite young . I plan to get all the support I need from the amazing women that are on websites such as these . As far as this issue goes they are my family .And keep in mind , a lot of Indians are doing it too , eventually people will accept . We are the pioneers in this area .