Thought I'd shout out to see anyone else every had this happen, or maybe just to get some support, because I'm getting pretty discouraged.
My DH and I decided in early November to go with Shady Grove, after 4-1/2 years of trying with OE, several surgeries, a couple losses, and LOTS of DH and me not being on the same page where TTC was concerned. It's been so many pokes and prods and tears and fights to get to this place where we are both ready to go and on the same page and excited. SG even agreed to accept the mock EEP cycle I did somewhere else last summer. So it was just a matter of waiting for my new cycle to start (thought it would be any day) and then a couple screening tests.
And now, a month later, I'm on CD51. I have felt ovulatory a couple times, but my temps are low. All those times of AF coming when I didn't want her, now I need her and she's AWOL. SG wants to do a "no period" test that will cost me $575 and then start either BCP or meds to induce menses.
I'm unsure what I want to do. Part of me wants to listen to and respect my body, and I HAVE had a couple important insights during this wait that have helped with the emotional aspects of DE that I might not have made rushing forward. On the other hand, enough aleady, can't I just finally get on with it?
Anyone ever have this happen? I'm grateful or any insights, or just some words of encouragement.