Pathology results from my miscarriage show a chromosomally normal baby. All of my labs come back normal ( including apa, anticardiolipin, specific lupus stuff) have been to a rheumatologist, hematologist...etc. Thinking about just giving up.
I'm so sorry. I had unexplained infertility for years. DE finally worked for me with an uber proven rock star donor. I did do immune treatment (with an RI - Dr Kwak Kim), but I don't think that was it. Good luck finding an answer. I'm so sorry for all the frustation and pain.
If you want a baby don't give up. You may want to start posting on the green board with other ladies that have tried more than one time with DE. It is very sad to know that the chromosomes were fine and you are left without an explanation of why it didn't work.
We don't always know the whys, but it doesn't mean DE is not for you
December 18 2011, 12:47 AM
I can imagine how you must be hurting, and completely frustrated and fed-up with no answers, but like Raindrops said, if you want a baby, don't give up.
You might want to post on the pink board and let the ladies know what happened, what kinds of tests you've had up to this point and just see what they say. There are so many who had unexplained IF issues for years, but were still able to have a baby. It just might take longer, but don't feel it's impossible.
I know it's hard not to feel defeated, but you can do this. You may need a break and a chance to regroup, but you have to know that you can do this, because the pay-off will be so worth the battle.
I wish you the best in whatever you decide is right for you.