And if the results today are negative I hope and pray that the FET will be the winner. I know firsthand that each setback can seem like the end of the road but so many women before us have graduated and moved on to acheive their families that I can't help but think there is hope for us all as long as we can continue to fight.
Love to you.
This message has been edited by CTSmithie on Apr 18, 2012 11:42 AM
I'm so sorry to see this. You'll be in my thoughts as you grieve and recover from these difficult weeks. I'm praying that your mom will be operating from Heaven, in complete control of your FET, sending you the miracle child you so richly deserve.
I am so so so so sorry that this continues to happen to you. It is truly not fair and unnecessary. You have enough DAMN character building!!!!! May God comfort you, may DH comfort you, may your Mom's spirit comfort you.
So sorry that it couldn't be better news for you. A double blow of loss in just a short time. Big hugs Minniet. I'm praying your FET is successful. I would just straight back on and do an FET. If you want me to email please send me an email at Chrislah29 at hotmail dot com and I will respond ((())))
I hope we will get an answer why this DE even become unmanageable on us. It is good idea that you have a fet in your mind asap and to do the HCG infusion and maybe the shot too. I read long time ago someone posting about it. But I don't remember if they had success or not. I will post about it. It doesn't hurt too to do the infusion.
I am so terribly sorry about this andabout the loss of your mother. I have not been here much lately but do lurk and follow your progress as I remember so clearly us doing our last "hurrah" OE cycles together. I know there is really nothing that can be said right now to ease your pain but please know my thoughts are with you. I hope that it is your turn soon-you deserve to be a mother.
I had that happen to me more than a few times and it's very, very hard. You mentioned in another post that you worried you had some occult problem that our current technology cannot detect. That's possible, but it's much more likely that this was just the luck of the draw and you were on the wrong side of the statistics. Not all donor embryos are normal. Many people have success with an FET. Recently, the success rates for FETs rival that of fresh transfers.
Hang in there, and build your strength to try again.
Terrible news. You simply do not deserve this - any of this.
I'm praying for strength and courage for you. You will get through this awful time, it may not feel like it right now. The universe is just not making it even slightly easy or even bearable right now, but things will change, I promise, they always do.
When I was at my lowest ebb, I read 'When bad things happen to good people'. It helped me to pray again.
Keep posting Minniet. There are so many people here who want you to succeed and are supporting you every step of the way.
Dear Minniet, I am so sorry for what you are going through... When you feel better, please check a topic in the FertilityFriends.co.uk that refers to 'Serum' (it's under International/ Greece). There is a very-very good (and affordable) clinic in Greece specialised in DE, with very high success rates, which offers advanced and personnalized checking and treatment for difficult cases with repeating implantation failures. There may be an undiscovered problem and I think you could take a look at the other ladies' experience and comments. You will be surprised to find out that there are marvelous clinics outside the US, where doctors try to do more than everything for patients and with a great of success. I tell you this from my personnal and successful experience! Just have a look on this when you feel better. Best wishes!
I've been sitting on pins and needles for months waiting and hoping for your successful cycle. I'm so sorry. And now you have to deal with the hormonal crash, too on top of mourning your mom's passing. Please do take gentle care of yourself.
I don't know what to say except to pass on my experience that we cycled with 2 separate proven donors. The first cycle started with many good embryos but fizzled out toward day 5 and we had BFN and nothing left to freeze. Second cycle went similarly but did work at least. And comparing our cycle to the donors' other cycles, they stood out as mediocre. So I'm sure we had some undiagnosed male factor. Please ask the wise women here about it to make sure DH has had all the tests (SCSA, fragmentation come to mind but I'm not knowledgeable).
more sad news in your life. Why you have to endure so much right now I just don't know...it's at these times that challenge our hope and faith. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and in time life will flow with many blessings for you. For now be gentle on yourself, hugs from Hope
I just don't know what to say. I feel so awful for you and your husband. And to have to tell family the sad news. Take care of yourselves and be gentle with yourselves. Wishing you strength as you recover and consider next steps.