I seem to be going through the same thing and it stinks, huh? It does make it hard to trust and I agree, it's not fair.
All I can say is I'm sorry that you are being treated this way. the people out there that do that kind of thing, are heartless, self-centered and very very insecure themselves.
You are a good person, I'm pretty sure. No one deserves to be talked about behind their backs...NO ONE! That is cowardly!
No matter what...you have a person here that understands. I try not to talk behind others' backs unless it is like this...no names...no way to track it back to them...just an angry out pouring of being treated unfairly.
Just know you deserve to be treated fairly...no matter what did happen...K?
hugs if that's okay
riley...