Hi Riley: some time ago I wrote about setting limits and boundaries and you were very encouraging and I never wrote to thank you. Things are settling down somewhat and I am noticing that things do not happen in a vacuum and, as such, there are others who are trying to take the abusive spot with me as quiet 'receiver'. But they don't know I'm not alone anymore. As long as I try to write and remember that there are people that listen, then they cannot win. I will keep defining what it is I want my world to be. Even the tummy aches and headaches tell me I am on the right track: change does not come easily for some! Thanks again.
Elizabeth