David...you did put a trigger warning in the title of the post. I don't require that, but you did it anyway. That was plenty enough to warn anyone to be sure that they were in a good place when they open your post to read. You are not in any way to blame for how someone reacted if they chose to open a post marked Trigger even though they were feeling fragile.
Elise...I am sorry you were triggered, but it is not fair to blame David when he did his part in warning everyone. You had a responsibility to choose to not read that post if you were in a fragile enough state that reading it could lead you to cut. I do NOT want you running off innocent bystanders by jumping down their throats whenever they write something that you don't like...you did that to Paule and now to David, both of whom are together, btw. I do care about how you feel, but I care about them too, and they did not do anything wrong, yet they were given the opposite of support from you. Please, although I do welcome you here, I do not welcome those types of comments. I run a board that is kinda in-between MM where everything is monitored very closely and many posts are pulled, and DenizatioN where there is no pulling of posts. If you do not like the way I run it, you do not have to come here, but if you do come here, I am insisting that you stop pushing others away.
Alex and Ana...I don't know at what point you figured out that it was Elise posting, but I do know that you know good and well that it leads to nothing but trouble when you and she post to one another. Please do not engage in such confrontations here...you are more than welcome to take it elsewhere.
I love you all. I hate what you are doing. And it has to stop. I am having surgery this week, and I don't need this extra stress. This is MY board. I'm tired of having to break you two up all the time. So STOP putting it on this board!!!!!