It's ok with me if you don't want to look at her suggestions...I was just letting you know that there were some good ones. I certainly don't expect you to think the same as me, because you are your own person. And I did confront her on her behavior, and let her know that you and lisa are definately two different people, and I tried to talk to both of you with respect because respect is what I prefer here. I know you are having a hard time with this, but I am still here for you and would be more than willing to talk about this with you if you want. I love you, even if you don't love me...