i was really upset the other day, this junk with the ex is STILL going on, and we are still being harrassed a lot because of it. well awhile back one of our and the ex' old friends showed up in a chat room we go to now, and we were suspicous. we talked a bit to her and she said, without us prompting, that she and the ex weren't friends no more, and she didn't like the ex. then we find out a week ago she made the ex a bracelet (in the last 2 weeks). well i dunno about you but to me that doesn't sound like someone who doesn't like that person huh? so w'ere feelig upset and scared and untrusting, and then we tell a friend and our friend says well you can't change it so don't worry about it - so its OKAY for our ex to keep telling these lies, because we can't change it? so its OKAY for us to be harrassed on a daily basis because we can't change it? its OKAY for us to not be able to trust hardly anyone because 90% of people seem to be in leagues with the ex and whoever is harrassing us?