i didnt see it as an attack
i saw someone appropriately asking you to respect the boundaries that had been requsted previously.
you came, you paid your respects...i did not have a problem with you paying respects...but there were still boundaries there...and that should be respected also.
i did not see anyone "attacking" your lils.
you have showed behaviors that were not appropriate and that is why peple feel the way they do. maybe its not that they dont like you or care for your lils, maybe its just hard to trust you right now. i dont mean this to sound ugly. just having a hard time trusting.
we can take this further in email if you would like, if not, thats understandable.
C