i'm answering you here while we talk IM
we have told her how important it is, but she doesn't know we are we
i don't think she wants to make trouble, especially in front of him...that was a good one!
we're hoping that at some point she will let us know more...she actually has by telling us we took the place of the baby in heaven....now, we know that there was another girl!
how do people get away with this kind of junk?????
i dunno
hopey...