I thank you, for the concern you have for Jamie-lee, however it was not my intention to belittle or embarrass her. You spoke, as a person who has grown up in abuse, i shall now speak, as a person who is concerned for the mental and emotional welfare of a child in her care. Believe it or not, there was a method to my madness, in responding to Jamie-lee. We are talking about a thirteen year old "child" here, a child of whom at best, has the emotional maturity of a five year old (through no fault of her own). Apart from Jamie-lee's sexual abuse, and other issues, she also suffers from a psychosomatic illness, and suspected psychosis of which are in the process of being assessed, and treated. Both these abuse related conditions are aggravated by added stress, and without going into much detail my response to Jamie-lee was more or less a test, of which has now had positive results.