I respect your views, and I thank you for sharing them.
As for your doubts, my original plan has proven to have great results, so thankfully Jamie-lee (who quite frankly is my one and only concern) does not share your views, and i am very pleased she has now come to the realisation, that she in fact does not require "3D help".
Just an observation, the people i see offering Jamie-lee any "3D help" seem to be those of whom she communicates with via e-mail, i have however witnessed Jamie-lee offer to help all on these boards. I happen to feel it is time she ceased giving so much of herself to adults, and take the opportunity at healing, and enjoying the childhood she still has left to experience.
I will no longer be "dragging everyone else into our personal problems", for my goal here has now been reached, and nor Jamie-lee or myself will be returning to this site, so please do not assume you are being ignored if you choose to "speak" again.