I can certainly understand your anger and your hatred of him. Personally, I would not recommend confronting him until you are more healed. The reason is this...most abusers do not ever admit to what they did, or if they do, they tend to blame the victim. If you choose to confront him, you need to be strong enough to be able to handle this, and to not "need" any kind of admission or apology from him. I hope this information helps.