sam, I am so sorry about the loss of your grandma. I know that is very sad, and even though she is with the angels and God, and is not suffering anymore, that does not make you miss her any less. It is so hard to lose someone we love and care about. My thoughts are with you sam.
I look forward to hearing from you about how it goes when your grandpa goes to court on Friday. I'm sure your t will be an excellent judge and that your grandpa will be sent far away for a very very long time.