You are so brave for writing here. One thing I suggested to Robin is that she might ask you all if you could give her the memories and feelings more slowly. I don't know if you can or not, but if you can, that would be one way of helping her. It would give her some time to digest what she is getting without feeling quite so bombarded with it all. I know this must be hard for all of you, and I want you to know that you are welcome to write here anytime, or to e-mail me if that is more comfortable. And also, I want you to know that it is not your fault that she is having such a hard time...it is the perps' fault. If y'all had not been hurt like you were, she would not be going through all this. And what she is going through now is part of healing from all the hurt. Please try to remember that, and not to feel guilty for something for which you are not to blame.