I don't have to even respond to this but, it upsets me so bad I am going to. First of all he explained in his last post he never read any of your stories. Only mine & I am the one that is getting him into this just by asking him to read my letter & see that I wrote it in a good way. We are very close but, I do not appreciate the remarks that were made toward him or myself. He is a minister & very dedicated counselor. Does this make him seem too close to me?????Does this make him a bad person??? I think not. He would never hurt me or make me uncomfortable & I don't like accusations that were in the last response. I have made many mistakes in my life but, going to him for advice & support & help was the best thing I have done in years. So don't shoot him down for supporting me. Also, if his posts bother you then don't read them. He marks them so you will know by signing Tam's counselor. I understand you may have been hurt by a T before but, you can't judge everyone by your pain! He don't deserve that at all. I have had allot of pain in my life from men but, have found out not all of them are bad either. I am sorry this bothered you but, don't falsely accuse him or myself of doing anything wrong. It seems I have only been coming on here after the first post to defend myself. I have also came on here to defend my counselor because he is a good person. He is very capable of defending himself but, since it bothers everyone so much I wanted to let you know some have been WAY out of line here. I came on here to help others & to get support & make friends. I have only been hurt or upset time & time again. Haven't I been through enough pain already in my life???? Sorry if got a little too upset in this response but, I am having to defend myself & my counselor because of false accusations. That's why so many counselors are afraid to help out today. Too many fingers being pointed here!