I have an 18 year old daughter who just lost a baby on Sept.8th 2008. I never seem to know what to say although I have lost a number of babies. She has tried to take her own life twice now and I am so afraid to say something for fear that I will push her over the edge. Her doctor sent her to the emergency room to be evaluated and she did not go. Since she is of age it seems as though nobody listens to my cry for help. She decided to bury the baby's remains although she was only about 3-4 months pregnant. She has now designed the headstone for the baby and I just do not know what to do. $1300 is a lot of money for a headstone. The baby was buried in the Garden of Angels in Mount Carmel Cemetary located in Paducah,Kentucky which is something that the Catholic Church does (we are not Catholic)and this did not cost us. I am so frightened for my daughter and for myself as I am so afraid she will suceed in taking her own life. The message you wrote may bring her some comfort if I could only get my printer to print it I would just mail it to her. Please help any advise you can give will be a blessing. Thank You and God Bless you.