i made several errors in judgement when involved with CPS and DCFS. first and foremost make yourself aware of the policies and procedures - you can obtain their manuel - most states sell it to you some provide it for free. learn what is considered child abuse in your state - most libraries have copies of the human service codes and the laws governing those laws. you must become the expert. learn which agency perform which functions and make sure you know the title of the individual that is comping to your house, ask for their cards, make a notebook, keep notes so you can keep the all these individual straight. check out family preservation as a mean of getting your children back. decide if you really want an older accusing child back home at the risk of losing your younger kids