This forum is to allow you to speak out about this terrible injustice to the American family and for those who have been falsely accused of child abuse and/or suffered a traumatic experience from a state child protection agency. Please no flaming or insensitivy to others in this forum.
The Light (Sep. 11. 2001)
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By: Gloria Guerra today is Sep 11, 2002. I met a fire-fighter who went to New York on 9/20/2001. He is one of the fire-fighter from Oakland, CA he is a LT U.S.A. CATF-4. I told him when I was a little girl I experience a fire, and I was playing with a metal piece, and place it into an electrical plate on the wall. It exploded, and fire came out everywhere. I had to follow the bright light to get out of the fire. Some of the Sep. 11, 2001 victims exprience a bright light to get out.-mothers_friend@hotmail.com
Alameda, CA, United States
I don't know if you are still looking for Illinois residents whom have had questionable experiences with the Department of Families and Children Services but I am writing this to you anyway just in case.
So not to waste your time I will briefly explain what happened to my family.
This happened in the spring of 1999.
I worked at a medical facility in Glen Ellyn (DuPage County) for about 5 years. I quit after being harassed by a co-worker. The harassment continued in the form of prank phone calls, prank mail (including expensive ordering in my name), etc. The local police couldn't really do anything, or so I was told. I finally decided to complain to the administration of the medical facility where I used to work. My complaints were well documented and administration took action by firing the 3 employees involved.
That very same day DCFS recieved a phone call saying that I abused my son by medicating him for allergies he did not have. Two women arrived on my doorstep and I willingly let them in so I could show them they had no need for concern and to explain the situation. I knew immediately who had called DCFS and why. I expected that after an initial interview and showing the DCFS employees documentation of the previous abuse and harassment to my family (by their caller) I would be vindicated and all would be well. I was so wrong.
Even though I had proof of my sons allergies I was required to take him to a DCFS approved allergy doctor at my own expense ($700) for allergy testing. The report from that doctor mirrored exactly what our previous doctor had recomended for my sons treatment. I was threatened daily by the caseworker until this was done.
I gave the caseworker the name, and number of the administration of the medical facility that had fired my ex-coworkers who had made the fraudulent abuse call. She never bothered to call. The medical facilty's admin and security contractor finally had to call them after repeated pleas from myself. Ultimately it was due to those calls that verified my story that the case was closed.
My family members tried to call DCFS to inform them of the situation. The caseworker refused to speak to them.
After 2 months I was cleared completely and the call to DCFS was classified as unwarranted. I was asked if I wanted my record cleared or if I wanted documentation. I replied I wanted it on the record that the call was made simply to harass my family. I also asked if I could procecute the persons who falsely accused me of abuse. I never heard back from DCFS.
I now send my son to an out of state boarding school to protect him.
After my experience I have been afraid to speak out against anyone or anything. DCFS doesn't seem to have any accountability so they can do what they wish to whom they wish. If there are others to stand up with it might not be so frightening. Something should be done in any case to protect those who are falsely accused. Reporting someone to DCFS fraudulently should be a crime. I can't believe it isn't.
The email addy you have supplied isn't working.
If any part of this will help you feel free to email me at eternalburn@ameritech.net . If not, no worries and good luck with your fight : )
Is there any help for the family that has endured these types of situations? I'm a single parent of 4 and I am going through a similar experience of a false report to Social Services. I need help. 1-706-221-8602
I have been trying to get help here in Michigan for many years tring to get my name cleared. But am unable to get anyone to here me. I try to stick up for myself through CPS. But thay right down what thay want and don't care about you as a parent, Thay say childeren don't lie. where is there help out there for the parents. were do you find someone to here your side.
I have been trying to get help here in Michigan for many years tring to get my name cleared. But am unable to get anyone to here me. I try to stick up for myself through CPS. But thay right down what thay want and don't care about you as a parent, Thay say childeren don't lie. where is there help out there for the parents. were do you find someone to here your side.
We both got accussed of child+neglet for all three of children.
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We just got word of the charges against us both a few days ago.We only know a few people and we don't talk to many people.We kinda stay to ourselves.DCf tried to say that we were suspected of child abuse+neglect.We were told that there was a report that came in a few days ago.And we have trying to figure out where that false report came from.Cause we don't talk to many people at all.Write back soon please.Cause DCF is still on our case about alot of things.Signed Christina+John Jones
We the people of the City of Alameda need a Police Commission Review Board. We need to stop police misconduct.
We must stop racial profiling, false arrests, false reports, and police officers who beat people up for no good cause, and cops who abuse their power.
The history behind a review board for misconduct of police, was widespread, in the 1950’s, by disciplinary procedure of police departments. But has not spread in every City yet. It’s a civilian investigation of citizen complaints, and is more independent, they are conducted by people who are not sworn officers. It is very important to have civilians that will review police misconduct, and alert police administrators, to the steps they must take to curb abuse in the City of Alameda, California.
Steps that can be taken with the review board:
• Persons who are not sworn officers conduct the initial fact finding. They submit an investigated report to a non police officer or board of non police officers.
• Police officers conduct their own initial fact finding as well. They submit an investigated report to the review board, for recommendations.
• The police then turn in their own investigation to their Dept. Police Chief. If the person making the complaint is not satisfied with the Dept. Police Chief actions on the complaint, then the person making the complaint will appeal to the review board.
• The review board is made up of three commissioners who assemble with involved parties, who hold a public evidence hearing of the complaints. The officers testify, and have the opportunity to question all parties regarding the incident.
• At the conclusion of the hearing the review board determines its finding based on clear convincing standard and evidence. The finding of the review board is forwarded, regarding the complaint, to the City Manager or Dept. Police Chief and City Counsel for advisory of capacity.
• The City Manager staff reviews the reports and the finding to the Internal Affairs Dept., and then it is determined whether the finding should be up held by the City Manager.
• The City Manager responds to the finding, and then the complaint is forwarded to the Dept. Police Chief.
• Complaint must be filed in so many days of the incident, after so many days, it can be voted.
If you have a police misconduct story, that happen in the City of Alameda, California.
E-mail: mothers_friend@hotmail.com
For more information contact, Cop Watch at (510) 548-0425
We the people must stop Social Service’s abuses against the children, and innocent parents. We must make new laws happen. Too many children are in foster care already. It costs the tax papers more money to place children in foster care then welfare. The juvenile courts procedure must change.
Here are the lists of changes that need to be made in the juvenile and adult proceedings. Without these changes more innocent families may lose their children to the foster care system.
This is a petition to change the California juvenile courts system. We need to change the Welfare and Institution Code and rules of the Superior court. We want to make sure that parents get a right to a fair trial in the juvenile courts and that parents get treated with fairness. There are 5 major changes that need to be corrected in the juvenile courts.
1. We need the right to a trial with at least six peers. At the present time one judge makes the decision for a child's life.
2. We need to open the courtrooms so citizens can understand what is going on in the juvenile courtrooms. At the present time courtrooms are closed to the public. Parents need the right to have family members and advocates in the courtroom. The public should have the right to know.
3. We do not need to allow double jeopardy in the juvenile courtroom. At the present time parents are retried in the juvenile courts after being found innocent in a criminal court. This should not happen.
4. In order to accept the contract of the reunification plan, parents should not have to waive their rights to a trial. At the present time, the minute order in the parents file states in small print. "Submit to allegations waives right to a trial." Parents need to be able to plea bargain without being forced to waive their rights.
5. Hearsay should not be admissible in the juvenile courts. The juvenile courts need to produce more factual evidence. At the present time in the social workers' report, hearsay evidence is admissible. The juvenile courts need to produce more evidence.
If you or you know someone that has been abused by CPS, send stories to;
Call: (510) 496-6000 ext 110
E-mail; mothers_friend@hotmail.com
This is not only a problem in the state of California. This is a problem nationwide. I was until last week the mother of two children. One of my own, and a step-daughter that I have raised with my husband for 8 years. Her mother has been unable to obtain custody through standard procedures so has now tried extreme measures. We were first acused of leaving our children home alone unatteded, when this failed it turned into medical neglect. This also failed the latest is a charge of physical abuse. Every time their has been a hearing the first thing out of the mothers mouth has been child support. It is set at 28.50 per week and we have never asked her to pay any medical costs. This amount is all that she has ever paid. A judge actually revoked 2508.00 in back child support at one time, yet she is now over 2500.00 behind again. The court system does nothing about this. They fail to seize personal property, bank accouts, drivers license and tax returns because she is a women. We have had 3 arrest warrents issued but yet she is never arrested. The police though were ready to arrest me over one bruise that was not even caused by me. This happened when she fell at the babysitters house. She was not even taken to the police station until it was completely gone. Her Mom did take pictures of it. They have since decided since her story has changed three times, and the shape of it doesn't match what it should that I didn't do it. They won't press charges against the mother even though this is the third false report. They said after the first we had to wait for the second, after the second they said the third. I didn't even ask this time becuase I knew they would say the fourth was required. Our attorney says their isn't much we can do, outside of send her to her mother's where their is obviously some mental abuse going on. But if we report that, it is considered to have been done in spite and we would be prosecuted for it. So that's where she is now residing. If we didn't send her the police and the lawyer both say she will press either more physical abuse charges or sexual abuse charges. In the meantime our lives have been seriously disrupted we each took a week off work for obvious reasons and our four year old is now petrified of the police and their sirens. She wants to know how many times the police have caught us and if they'll try to catch us again. Laws need to be changed to protect what are actually the children's best interests as well as the parents. We have been advised not to even enter a car with her. Yet alone take her for a weekend so our punishment for providing a loving stable home for the last 8 years is to meet her on Thursdays at a mall 45 minutes away because it's close to the mother's home. Where they are only required to leave her for an hour until it is safe to take on a normal visitation schedule. I don't think that will ever happen. I am at furious stage right now sorry if this rambled on a little. If you are aware of any useful info. or web-sites they would be appreciated. Good luck in getting laws changed their, I haven't figured out what I will pursue yet. I am still trying to figure out all of Michigans laws. But want to try to help other families from going through the same trauma ours has.
i live in bay point, ca., and my daughter is mentally disabled. she was 15 yrs. old and had a baby. she was never there in anyway helping me support or raise him. he is now 7 yrs. old, and she decided to call cps and make up allegations against me. francine robinson, a social worker, went to my daughters home on christmas 03, and listened to my daughter's story and removed him from my care, to my daughter.
the social worker lied on a report against me, and asked for supervised visits. the judge ordered frequent visits, and i have had 45 mins. in 2 months.
what can be done to help me?
I agree with what has been said in this letter cps in tenn didn't even help me when it came to my children and i where being abused by my ex. they just told me that i had to give my children up for adoption or to a family member because of the abuse i and my children endured . I did however have my mother to help me .Now my children are back home with me even though they are teens now . I do agree that the welfare system does need an over hall on the laws stating what is legal what not legal for the socialworkors to be able to do with our children and our familys. They have to much control over us all a whole .shirley
Press Release
News Media
Happy 4th of July 2002
A small one person protest will be held infront of the Juvenile Court House, Oakland, CA
Time: 1:00 p.m.
Next protest will be held infront of the City of Alameda Police Dept.
Time: 2:00 p.m.
This protest will be held in behalf of Gloria Guerra who's children were stolen by the Alameda police Dept, and later taken to CPS under false charges. Also this may start a Police Commission Review Board.
Police misconduct must stop.
E-mail: mothers_friend@hotmail.com
(510) 496-6000 ext 110
www.theguerrascase.homestead.com
PLEASE anyone help us?? They are destroying us..is there any hope? Justice and Liberty for all? Yeah right! Not in New Mexico! Not if you are poor! Not if you have young adaptable children! They are Nazi Soldiers and we are the Jews there is no escape once they have you they destroy you. How can this be happining in America. I perpose we all contact the ACLU with our stories. I have four children I have raised my 12 year old and still have her after a horrible battle. My 7 year old stepson has been raised by his father and mother. Our son had copper and Iron deficientcy which we did not know he had and did not know that this couses temporary brittle bone desease. My husband was playing with him. He tossed him up in the air and things like that. Never did he intentioaly hurt him. Our son was one year old when he became ill. We took him to the hospital and it was descovered that he had fractured ribs. We were shocked. The social nazies came and ask me how it happend. I was foolish...I trusted her. I ask " will you help me" she patted me on the leg and said " yes I will help you" ..I told her my husband was playing with the baby rough housing him.. and he must have accidentally hurt him..at the time we did not know anything about brittle bones..she ask why was he playing so rough with him? I told her he was playing with him like he played with his first son and like his uncles and brothers played ..they are traditioal hispanic men..I told her they all rough house with their children..also I was picked on ..as was my daughter..as was my husband..we wanted Isaac to be a tough little boy but noone intended to hurt him. " dont worry" she told me..I am here to help..OK so now here I am my children ripped screaming from my arms ..it took six months for me to get my daughter back.. her foster sister told everyone in my daughters school that we kicked our baby accross the house.. there was a report in the local paper of our caseworker stating that my son was abused because he was half white ( un out right lie) My husband was sentenced to 18 years by a jury where two of them knew his ex wife ..our witnesses were never called and our medicle history proving brittle bones was never admitted..his court appointed said "juries dont like papers"..a doctor got on the witness stand for the state and said the injuries were " absolutley intentional" this should not have been allowed according to other legal advice I have recieved since..this was openion not fact..and illegal..our attorney argued that there was no evidence that my husband was the one who injured the baby..even though we had already admitted to the socialnazies and the police that yes it happened but not intentionally..he was convicted of intentional child abuse and sentinced to 18 years..three days latter I got a notice of termination of rights to my son in the mail..never ending nightmare..my daughter and stepson cry for their brother and thier father and I am helpless..we are poor and I barly support us on what I make..I have completed all the parenting classes and drug tests the court ordered me to attened. I have a home..good food and provide clothing, education, love and support for my daughter and stepson and cry with them everytime the one hour visit ends with my youngest son. I cry for the father of my children who never intended harm and got a longer sentence than a murderer.. This happens everyday to thousands of families is there any hope..Please Lord Jesus help us ..HELP US.. I feel like just moving out of the not so wonderful America..My life is one long nightmare..Please if you are a lawyer reading this site. This is not a joke this is real I no longer tell my childern there is no such thing as monsters because they live at the cps office.
I have web addys to folks who might be able to help you, this totally wrong, and yes, it is very like them. They should not have TPR'd you so quickly, that right there says there is something screwy going on!
I'm so sorry to hear of your problems regarding "Youth Services". Believe me they do not give a hoot about children. They are just trying to justify their jobs. At the cost of destroying families, they could care less. They are the same as Women In need organizations. They also are destroying families by aiding and filing false protection from abuse order. The police and judges are nothingless than butt-boys for Youth Services and abused women orgs. I live in Pa. and have had my children taken from me simply no the word of a bi-polar mother. Problem is NO ONE wants to hear the truth. I have lost my children, home and now possibly my job. These false PFA's may cause me to be fired.
i just wanted to e mail you and let you know that my heart goes out to you. Just a few months ago we took my son to the hospitol, he was 1 mo. old. He was very sick, when we got there they did a spinal tap and other prcedures on him we were not allowed in the room,(which was a lie) during the time a bruse showed up on his shoulder. He was so ill he was sent to the nearest childrens hospitol. when we got to the second hospitol all the sudden children social services we all over us.
We told him that the bruise was not there when we took him to the hospitol. well our son was in the hospitol for 5 days, i stayed by his side the whole time during which all the doctors released him to our care and statement by the doctors said there was no sign of child abuse. well the day he was suppost to be released to us child social services came to the hospitol and told us he was not able to be in our care. my mother in law took my son so that he didn't have to go to a forter home. test after test was done. they took blood and found that his white blood cells came back abnormal.(causing him to bruise easily) well that was not enough for the CSS. they ordered more test. which came back again abnormal. finally after 2 mo. we got our son back and everything was dropped. but now our son is anemic because of all the blood test he has a blood disorder and all this heat ache was all bull. i totally know what you are going through. luck for us we didn't have crooked childen social servise members adnd such. i was just wanting to know have you tried to appeal to the courts? you also may be able to find a lawyer that will take your case no money up front. and when you win your case i am sure you can also go after all the wrong doing to your family and the lawyer can take his fees out of the settlement. i am not sure how it all works but it is something to look into . i hope i have helped you a little and if i haven't i am sorry. but don't loose your faith in god. i prayed to him every night and all day long for my son to be back in my arms and he helped me and i am sure he is going to help you too. ahe didn't not bless you with that child to have him ripped away from you. you sound like a wonderful mother and i am sure it will all work out . please keep me up to date on what is going on.
Too many children are in the foster care in the United States, we need changes:
Let’s ask Congress to make changes in the adult juvenile courts procedures, to give fairness to the people in the United States. We are looking at federal changes.
1) In some cases both agreed on by parents and judges in the adult juvenile courts, that the courts should be open to the public.
2) If parents who was not found guilty in the criminal court, parents should gain back custody of their children with documents from the criminal courts.
3) The name of the plan in California is called the Maintance Plan and other states are called different names, there should be an agreement to reunified with children and should explain in more details, you can waive your rights to a trial and the statements in the records become part of the records of the adult juvenile courts.
4) We need the right to a fair trial, with at least six to twelve peers of juries, to help the adult juvenile courts judges make decisions, on the placements of the children.
5) Hearsay statements by the social workers need more factual evidence before writing a case file.
People of the United States we need Congress to make changes in the adult juvenile courts procedures, to protect the rights of the parents in this Country.
(C) 2007
Contact: Gloria Guerra known as Mothers Friend
P.O. Box 1212
Alameda, CA 94501
(510) 839-2004 message phone
E-mail: mothers_friend@hotmail.com
The same thing is happening to us! This must stop!
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I cried when I read your posting. Like you, my stepfather and I are living in hell except that it is ADULT protective services who are destroying our lives based on false information. SOMETHING needs to be done about the free reign that APS (Adult Protective Services) and the Public Guardians Office has over people's lives. My stepfather and I have learned the hard way that it doesn't matter whether one is guilty or innocent. The system is set up to be so sweeping that it destroys as many lives as it protects. As soon as ANY accusations are made, regaurdless of by whom or whether there is any truth to them, they have far too much power to act HOWEVER they choose, whether ethical or not, including emptying ones's checking accounts, leaving you without a way to pay for food or necessities, hauling you away at a moments notice with no explanation, harrassing and insulting you, harrassing your friends, searching your home without a warrent, etc. etc. etc. We are being downright harrassed and abused all in the NAME of protecting my stepfather...when in fact, it is them we need to be protected from. They have been totally dishonest with us, plus harassed and driven away our renters and fired our perfectly wonderful caregivers. They have DEVIOUSLY
tried to get my stepfather labeled as incompetent (by sneaking their own doctors in under false pretenses) when my stepfather was clearly competent and had already been evaluated as such...
just so they could take his rights away and conserve him. They have shown MAJOR INCOMPETENCE in getting their facts straight and made constant unfair, untrue and often downright ridiculous
accusations. They have spoken to us in very unnecessary and hurtful ways. For instance they accused me of stealing my stepfathers money to pay for a massage school. This is ludicrous because I have Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and cannot handle touching people in that way and have never in my life even THOUGHT of going to massage school. Where they come up with these ideas, we haven't a clue. Plus they have mislabeled me and called me a liar because of my disability which they do not understand (and do not care to). They have forced me to go to the state to get proof that I am disabled. They have cost my stepfather and I thousands of dollars which we do not have and forced us...plus our neighbors who are trying to help us, to have to hire lawyers to fight them, but we've been told that we cannot sue APS...they are allowed to get away with it just because of who they are. My sister is a social worker in another county and she tells me the horror stories of how families are ripped apart simply because the protective services (for adults OR children) are so afraid of being accused of doing too little that they go WAY overboard and go after people who are completely innocent...turning it into a witch hunt and distroying peoples lives, and then not being held accountable for their mistakes. Remember the 3 students in the news who were recently cleared of raping that girl at that party? One of them said after being "hanged" even though he was innocent that it had opened his eyes to a whole world of injustice that he didn't know existed. That is exactly how we feel. APS are all too anxious to believe untrue accusations. They claim to investigate but they come in WANTING to find a problem. If there isn't one, they invent one. They pretend to be caring but then misenterpret what you say and then twist it to support what they want to think. It sounds extreme, I know, but we beg you to listen to us. IT IS TRUE. For instance, my stepfather was hauled away to the hospital when there was nothing wrong with him (the doctors confirmed it) because someone trying to hurt us (probably a disgruntled caregiver who was recently fired) called and said his blood sugar was low. She couldn't even have known that unless she was there to test it, which she was not. We had already checked it ourselves (as we do every morning) and it was normal, but the paramedics insisted on checking it again and it was OF COURSE NORMAL. But they took him to the hospital anyway, and because the doctors couldn't find anything wrong with him, he was stuck with the huge hospital bill (his insurance wouldn't pay it). Then he was forced to stay in a nursing home against his will for 6 weeks even though the doctors confirmed that he was perfectly healthy. And APS refused to tell us who made the false accusation or apologize in any way for what they had put us through. This is but one of MANY examples of false accusations made against us that we have had to endure. This has brought my 86 yr old stepfather to tears many times, and he is not usually one to cry. He just wants to live his last years in peace. He has told APS and the Public Guardians Office repeatedly that these accusations are untrue and simply the ravings of a very sick woman (the fired caregiver), but they do not believe him..even though they have seen time and time again that the accusations turned out to be false. They WANT to believe the accusations cause it gives them the right to come in and take over our lives. We are truley living in hell. They will not leave us alone. The Public Gaurdians Office and APS clearly do not care about my stepfather. They seem to get a rush of power from being able to take our rights away. One day I asked one of the workers (her name is Sarah Bromely) if they knew how much they were hurting us and she said quote "I don't really care." They have attacked everyone around my stepfather who has tried to help him (including our neighbors of 37 years) and accused them of having ulterior motives. We feel SO helpless and feel that our government has betrayed us. We've even thought of leaving the county to get our lives back. In this country you are suppose to be innocent until proven guilty. They are treating us all as if we are guilty even though they have no proof of anything. They are literally destroying our lives based on heresay, and because the Public Gaurdians Office has so much power, the judge listens to them instead of our lawyers. Our lawyers tell us it is a well known fact that the Gaurdians Office has far too much power and they are apalled by it. The law says: TITLE 31 CHAPTER 39. ADULT PROTECTIVE SERVICES § 3901. Legislative intent. The intent is to authorize only the least possible restrictions on the exercise of personal and civil rights and such restrictions may be permitted only when consistent with PROVEN NEED for services. (63 Del. Laws, c. 384, § 1. They are violating the social workers code of ethics held by the National Association Of Social Workers (NASW) of maintaining a clients dignity and self worth, respecting the importance of human relationships, and maintaining professional competence. Please help us bring this injustice to light. We are desperate.
APS (Adult Protective Services) has their own agenda. They don't want the truth. They WANT to find a problem. If there isn't one, they will make one up. I'm a film major and I may make a documentary on this. We need to spread the word so people won't have their lives ripped apart anymore. What they do is a crime. I intend to call attention to it. If you'd like to be part of my documentary, let me know.
Peggy
ig Production
100 Universal City Plaza, Building 1320, 1st floor
Los Angeles,CA 91608
(818)777-2737
Fax (818) 733-5616
Kevin Costner is a man that likes all kinds of women. He likes making love to diffrent woman. His mother was a formal social worker. He can't seem to keep a relationship. He is over sex.
I'm going to write a screenplay on my contact with Kevin Costner. If you like a copy of the tape with Kevin Costner voice on April 10, 2002, send $5.00.
Send to Gloria Guerra
P.O. Box 1212
Alameda, CA 94501
Thanks for your input on the screenplay, I sent you. The Guerra’s Case. I decided I will look for another production company, who will be interested in my screenplay. The story is continuing and the legislation of changes in juvenile laws may take place. I’m still fighting for law’s to be better in the juvenile courts, and to give parents due process of laws. Kevin I received your message on my answering machine on date April 10, 2002. The person said he was you. Our conversation was that you will be calling me soon. I have the message to prove it. Anyways you said over the phone that you never came to the bay area (510) area code. Alameda County. A friend of mine told me that her daughter teacher saw you in Oakland, CA a few years ago and had allot of school children with her, she told me you signed your name, and bought donates for all the children, is this true? On around July 2000 I told you I met you in the City of Alameda, California in a bar called the Shamrock. I told you that you had followed me in the bay area, and that you were wearing light brown shorts and your hair was longer blond, you had long side burns, and you had light brown shoes. My Indian friend was drunk, but I was not. You sat one bar stool away from me. My friend started to talk to you; she was an older Indian lady. I had long dark hair in a pony tail at the time. I was wearing dark glasses and wearing a silver sweater, and had black pants. You decided to move next to me, you asked me if I wanted you to buy me a beer. You bought me a beer. You bought a beer for my Indian friend, a friend of mine yelled out buy me a beer, and you said buy your own beer. You bought me and my friend a beer anyways. The bartender said she knew who you were later. You asked me where I was from, and asked me about my life. You seemed interested in me at the time. I asked you a question; I asked you what did you do for a living? You said you was an actor, and you been acting for a long time. You told me that you had gone to college in California, and you had studied Business Administration then later acting. You said you knew Tom Hanks, and that he was from the bay area, and you said you did a movie with him, is this true? I asked you did you like what you did for a living? You told me, you love it. You told me you met your wife in a play, and you were with her for a long time, is this true? Later you said you divorce her, and you told me you had children by her. You told me you cared a lot for your children. You told me at the time you had a relationship, with a woman you met, and you were living with her. You did not want to tell me more or less where you lived. I told you if I had all that money, I would not know what to do with it. I told you it’s what in your soul not what you have. I think you started to like me because you reach over and held my hand. I allowed you to hold my hand, because I needed someone to comfort me. I told you I was homeless, that I had lost my apartment at the time. I also told you I had written a screenplay. You asked me what it was about. I told you it’s like a present; I could not let the present be told yet. You see I was waiting for the right time to maybe tell you. But I wanted to get to know you first. When you held my hand, you asked me a question. You told me you would like to have a relationship with me. You also said get a little bit lose. You said take off my sun glasses look in your eyes. I took off my sun glasses, and you stared in my brown eyes, and your eyes were a deep blue. I wonder when you asked me to have a relationship with you, if it was the beer you were drinking or did you not meant it. You touch my body and I push your hand away, by saying wait. You went to the bathroom, and came back. We talked for sometime in the bar. I did not know you were an actor at the time, but I saw you were a good person inside. I met you as a person for what the real you was, not some actor everyone wants to be with. I could have slept with you, but I did not. I did not get your signature; I wanted to wait for the right time. Instead I guess you decided to get ready and leave. So you walked out of the bar, and me and my friend followed you behind. You walked toward your truck and got in. I waived good by to you. For two years I looked for you by the bar, but I never saw you again. Until I read the Globe newspaper about your breakup with your girlfriend. That is when I decided to look you up. That is when I decided to look for you. I had to look for you. I told another friend lets go to Hollywood where your production company Tig, and try to look you up. So off we went the first time April 2002 and it was too late to reach you, the studio was closed, and I left a message. You had called me back April 10, 2002, I had spoken to you, and you told me you did not drive yourself and that you had someone drive you around in a limo. The conversation was asked what I was wearing, and a sexual fantasy took place, as if it was a dream man, having sex over the phone. I went back looking for you, and you were not there. So I wanted to leave the screenplay, you asked me about in the past. Sarah your clerk said you were not there, Sarah seemed over the phone as if she had an affair with you. She seemed upset that I was looking for you. Kevin later I received a letter of rejection of the screenplay, with no ones name signed below. What is going on? I asked Sarah were you at the studio April 2002, she said no. Kevin you have so many women after you. But you told me on April 10, 2002 that you never met me, and that you never came to the bay area, what is the real truth? I’m around your age; don’t you like women your age? I still care for you as a person, screenplay or not. I met a good man inside, not just an actor every woman want or just sex. I see you different, you already prove to me you are not just looking for just sex. I was very upset with you, and I thought you were just after women to have sex with, different women. Maybe when a man hurts you, you feel like he never cared for you, he only wanted a one night stand. Anyways I hope I could see your face and talk to you in person, to see for myself that you were not the Kevin I met or were you? I will be moving next year to Hollywood, CA, maybe. Maybe I could talk to you and see as the person you really are.
Thanks for your input on the screenplay, I sent you. The Guerra’s Case. I decided I will look for another production company, who will be interested in my screenplay. The story is continuing and the legislation of changes in juvenile laws may take place. I’m still fighting for law’s to be better in the juvenile courts, and to give parents due process of laws. Kevin I received your message on my answering machine on date April 10, 2002. The person said he was you. Our conversation was that you will be calling me soon. I have the message to prove it. Anyways you said over the phone that you never came to the bay area (510) area code. Alameda County. A friend of mine told me that her daughter teacher saw you in Oakland, CA a few years ago and had allot of school children with her, she told me you signed your name, and bought donates for all the children, is this true? On around July 2000 I told you I met you in the City of Alameda, California in a bar called the Shamrock. I told you that you had followed me in the bay area, and that you were wearing light brown shorts and your hair was longer blond, you had long side burns, and you had light brown shoes. My Indian friend was drunk, but I was not. You sat one bar stool away from me. My friend started to talk to you; she was an older Indian lady. I had long dark hair in a pony tail at the time. I was wearing dark glasses and wearing a silver sweater, and had black pants. You decided to move next to me, you asked me if I wanted you to buy me a beer. You bought me a beer. You bought a beer for my Indian friend, a friend of mine yelled out buy me a beer, and you said buy your own beer. You bought me and my friend a beer anyways. The bartender said she knew who you were later. You asked me where I was from, and asked me about my life. You seemed interested in me at the time. I asked you a question; I asked you what did you do for a living? You said you was an actor, and you been acting for a long time. You told me that you had gone to college in California, and you had studied Business Administration then later acting. You said you knew Tom Hanks, and that he was from the bay area, and you said you did a movie with him, is this true? I asked you did you like what you did for a living? You told me, you love it. You told me you met your wife in a play, and you were with her for a long time, is this true? Later you said you divorce her, and you told me you had children by her. You told me you cared a lot for your children. You told me at the time you had a relationship, with a woman you met, and you were living with her. You did not want to tell me more or less where you lived. I told you if I had all that money, I would not know what to do with it. I told you it’s what in your soul not what you have. I think you started to like me because you reach over and held my hand. I allowed you to hold my hand, because I needed someone to comfort me. I told you I was homeless, that I had lost my apartment at the time. I also told you I had written a screenplay. You asked me what it was about. I told you it’s like a present; I could not let the present be told yet. You see I was waiting for the right time to maybe tell you. But I wanted to get to know you first. When you held my hand, you asked me a question. You told me you would like to have a relationship with me. You also said get a little bit lose. You said take off my sun glasses look in your eyes. I took off my sun glasses, and you stared in my brown eyes, and your eyes were a deep blue. I wonder when you asked me to have a relationship with you, if it was the beer you were drinking or did you not meant it. You touch my body and I push your hand away, by saying wait. You went to the bathroom, and came back. We talked for sometime in the bar. I did not know you were an actor at the time, but I saw you were a good person inside. I met you as a person for what the real you was, not some actor everyone wants to be with. I could have slept with you, but I did not. I did not get your signature; I wanted to wait for the right time. Instead I guess you decided to get ready and leave. So you walked out of the bar, and me and my friend followed you behind. You walked toward your truck and got in. I waived good by to you. For two years I looked for you by the bar, but I never saw you again. Until I read the Globe newspaper about your breakup with your girlfriend. That is when I decided to look you up. That is when I decided to look for you. I had to look for you. I told another friend lets go to Hollywood where your production company Tig, and try to look you up. So off we went the first time April 2002 and it was too late to reach you, the studio was closed, and I left a message. You had called me back April 10, 2002, I had spoken to you, and you told me you did not drive yourself and that you had someone drive you around in a limo. The conversation was asked what I was wearing, and a sexual fantasy took place, as if it was a dream man, having sex over the phone. I went back looking for you, and you were not there. So I wanted to leave the screenplay, you asked me about in the past. Sarah your clerk said you were not there, Sarah seemed over the phone as if she had an affair with you. She seemed upset that I was looking for you. Kevin later I received a letter of rejection of the screenplay, with no ones name signed below. What is going on? I asked Sarah were you at the studio April 2002, she said no. Kevin you have so many women after you. But you told me on April 10, 2002 that you never met me, and that you never came to the bay area, what is the real truth? I’m around your age; don’t you like women your age? I still care for you as a person, screenplay or not. I met a good man inside, not just an actor every woman want or just sex. I see you different, you already prove to me you are not just looking for just sex. I was very upset with you, and I thought you were just after women to have sex with, different women. Maybe when a man hurts you, you feel like he never cared for you, he only wanted a one night stand. Anyways I hope I could see your face and talk to you in person, to see for myself that you were not the Kevin I met or were you? I will be moving next year to Hollywood, CA, maybe. Maybe I could talk to you and see as the person you really are.
It is now Sep. 18, 2002 Kevin Costner never return my phone calls. He is doing a movie with Walt Disey studios called the Open Range, a western movie. I would of liked to have spoken to him again about CPS. He owns Tigs Production with a partner name Jim Wilson. Sarah his clerk that answers the phone has not put me through to speak to him again. I feel if Kevin Costner did not want to see me again, he should have called me, and say it to me, not his clerk Sarah. Kevin Costner had a older brother and his mother was a formal social worker, his father worked hard and travel with the family. Kevin liked to play cowboy, and go out into the woods. Kevin Costner lived in California and studied business in College, he met his wife Cindy at a dance, and later married her. He had three children by her, two girls and one boy. He worked hard to take care of his family. Later he decided to move to Hollywood, California, and change his trade. He wanted to become an actor, he did not become an actor right away you see, he worked his way through. He did alote of jobs as an extra for movies. He hit his acting break later on in life. As an actor he had ladies he met, and had affairs with them. His wife found out and divorce him. So he met a woman half his age and fell in love with her, later she found out he had met another woman and found them together in a hotel room. She broke it off with him. Now he says in an interview. he is not ready to get married. I know he has a life as an actor and he does many movies after movies, but he should take the time to aleast speak to me about the problems with Child Protective Services abuses. I know his mother was a formal social worker, but still he should be more open minded, that their is abuses with CPS in this Country. I'm working on a screenplay regarding Kevin Costner. Those of you who have more information on the life of Kevin Costner please email me: mothers_friend@hotmail.com
It is now Sep. 18, 2002 Kevin Costner never returns my phone calls. He is doing a movie with Walt Disney studios called the Open Range, a western movie. I would have liked to have spoken to him again about CPS. He owns Tigs Production with a partner name Jim Wilson. Sarah his clerk that answers the phone has not put me through to speak to him again. I feel if Kevin Costner did not want to see me again, he should have called me, and say it to me, not his clerk Sarah. Kevin Costner had an older brother and his mother was a formal social worker, his father worked hard and travels with the family. Kevin liked to play cowboy, and go out into the woods. Kevin Costner lived in California and studied business in College; he met his wife Cindy at a dance, and later married her. He had three children by her, two girls and one boy. He worked hard to take care of his family. Later he decided to move to Hollywood, California, and change his trade. He wanted to become an actor, he did not become an actor right away you see, and he worked his way through. He did allot of jobs as an extra for movies. He hit his acting break later on in life. As an actor he had ladies he met, and had affairs with them. His wife found out and divorces him. So he met a woman half his age and fell in love with her, later she found out he had met another woman and found them together in a hotel room. She broke it off with him. Now he says in an interview. He is not ready to get married. I know he has a life as an actor and he does many movies after movies, but he should take the time to at least speak to me about the problems with Child Protective Services abuses. I know his mother was a formal social worker, but still he should be more open minded, that their is abuses with CPS in this Country. I'm working on a screenplay regarding Kevin Costner. Those of you who have more information on the life of Kevin Costner please email me: mothers_friend@hotmail.com
I agree whole-heartedly with your comment, but would like to add that I think this person needs more than just medicine, maybe an in-stay would be more beneficial for her.
You don't know what you are talking about. Its about a problem what happen with an actor and me. I happen to have met him, you don't have to take my word and I don't care. You both are two self center people that don't know your ass from the hole in the ground, get a life bitches or asshole.
I feel that if you are two self center people then get off this webpage because you must not care for the victims of CPS. You people need to go were the asshole belong.
Senator Don Perata
Will be getting involve in the changes of CPS.
I will be helping with the Welfare & Institution laws.
Together we will stop CPS abuse in California.
Would you be able to help me or point me to a good Congressman or Senator for help as our battle with CPS nightmare continues.
I contacted more groups than you can shake a stick at. I've contacted Civil Rights groups, 3 Senators 2 Congressman and 2 Governors including yours because I figured California leads the way. I sent my proposals for Budget Reallocation effectively cutting the Social Service Budget and saving children and families.
I need relief. I contacted the top 100 newspapers in the country plus another 50 or so and radio and TV media and have an interview locally in November and a National TV show is looking at my letter and research. I hired a good Civil Rights lawyer but I can tell these CPS people operate openly breaking all kinds of laws and it goes overlooked like it is fine and dandy.
Once we win against the bogus charge. We plan to sue. What can I do. Who can I contact in Texas.
I Contacted
The Department of Justice
The Department of Human Services
Texas Child Protective Services in Austin
Attorney General
State Comptroller
Senator Van de Putte - TX 1 call can't do much!
Congressman Gonzalez - TX No help
Just contacted
Governor Jeb Bush - FL
Governor Arnold Schwarznegger - CA
Senator Cornyn - TX
Senator McCain - AZ
Congressman Culberson - TX
ACLU
many others
Please advice, thanks sincerely, Thomas P. Hanson
P.S. We are accused of endangerment after we questioned case workers authority and integrity. WoW!
My name is Leya Marie Phetsomphou. I live in Los Angeles County, California, and I am having a problem with the Counties Children’s Protective Services (CPS). They took my son, Jessiah, away from me for no reason. They suspected that I was on drugs and abused my child because they had received a complaint about me. The complaint came from my son’s dad, Jeff Abelardo Cotto Compos, and his mother Ana Leonor Compos.
My son’s dad is angry with me for filing a restraining order against him for partner abuse. He and his mother continue to harass and threaten me. Both my son’s dad and his mother are illegally in this Country.
When the Social Worker came to my home, I was cooperative. I gave them a drug test, which came back negative in all areas of the test. Since my son’s dad moved out six months ago, there have been no acts of violence in my apartment. At the time everything was going well for me and my son. When CPS came back and removed my son from my custody they had no warrant or Court ordered papers. When they took my son, they did not indicate who they were or show me their badges. There is something suspicious with my case. Many of the statements made by the CPS caseworker are false. I also have papers and documents that disprove the evidence that CPS says they used to take my son away from me.
In addition, there was a 10 hour gap from when they took my son away and finally placed him with the foster family. The foster family encourages Jessiah to call me by my first name and not mommy. During one visitation I also observed bruises on his face and neck. Before Jessiah was taken from me we had a special bond and had never been apart before. Now when I see him he refuses to be held by me.
I really need help with my case. I have been told by my Court appointed attorney that once a child is taken into the “system” in Los Angeles, County, it is the toughest County in California to deal with. If you have any questions please call me at *82 1-818-780-7344 or 1-818-602-5074.
I have written the above because I have no one else to turn to. I miss my son very much. My son is my life, and I want him back home soon. I hope you can do something to help reunite my family. My next date in Court is on August 16, 2006 at 8:30 AM, and I pray for a miracle and the best for my son.
My name is Leya Marie Phetsomphou. I live in Los Angeles County, California, and I am having a problem with the Counties Children’s Protective Services (CPS). They took my son, Jessiah, away from me for no reason. They suspected that I was on drugs and abused my child because they had received a complaint about me. The complaint came from my son’s dad, Jeff Abelardo Cotto Compos, and his mother Ana Leonor Compos.
My son’s dad is angry with me for filing a restraining order against him for partner abuse. He and his mother continue to harass and threaten me. Both my son’s dad and his mother are illegally in this Country.
When the Social Worker came to my home, I was cooperative. I gave them a drug test, which came back negative in all areas of the test. Since my son’s dad moved out six months ago, there have been no acts of violence in my apartment. At the time everything was going well for me and my son. When CPS came back and removed my son from my custody they had no warrant or Court ordered papers. When they took my son, they did not indicate who they were or show me their badges. There is something suspicious with my case. Many of the statements made by the CPS caseworker are false. I also have papers and documents that disprove the evidence that CPS says they used to take my son away from me.
In addition, there was a 10 hour gap from when they took my son away and finally placed him with the foster family. The foster family encourages Jessiah to call me by my first name and not mommy. During one visitation I also observed bruises on his face and neck. Before Jessiah was taken from me we had a special bond and had never been apart before. Now when I see him he refuses to be held by me.
I really need help with my case. I have been told by my Court appointed attorney that once a child is taken into the “system” in Los Angeles, County, it is the toughest County in California to deal with. If you have any questions please call me at *82 1-818-780-7344 or 1-818-602-5074.
I have written the above because I have no one else to turn to. I miss my son very much. My son is my life, and I want him back home soon. I hope you can do something to help reunite my family. My next date in Court is on August 16, 2006 at 8:30 AM, and I pray for a miracle and the best for my son.
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Wednesday, June 05, 2002 - 3:02:09 AM MST
Court: Social aide violated rights of mom
By Donna Horowitz
Staff Writer
A federal court magistrate has ruled that an Alameda County social worker violated the constitutional rights of a Berkeley mother and her twin sons by removing the boys from their home without a warrant.
U.S. District Court Magistrate Bernard Zimmerman issued his decision Monday in the case of Patricia Moodian and her 11-year-old boys.
"I find that (Carolyn) Black violated the plaintiffs' constitutional rights when she removed the children from the mother's custody without a warrant solely based on her belief that they were in imminent danger of emotional harm," the judge said in his written opinion.
He noted that state law allows a child to be taken from parents without prior approval by a judge if the social worker believes the child is in "imminent danger of serious bodily injury."
But Zimmerman said that "unlike physical harm, such as a beating, which can have immediate and dire consequences, emotional harm by its nature does not carry the same immediacy."
David Beauvais, the Berkeley attorney representing Moodian, called the decision a victory for his client who was alleging violation of the Fourth Amendment barring illegal search and seizure. The case is now scheduled to go to trial in federal
court Aug. 19 where a jury will decide on two other points and potential damages.
"I hope it induces some change in policy and that social workers will be more sensitive to the rights of parents and children so it doesn't happen to other children and parents," Beauvais said.
County Counsel Richard Winnie said the case points out a new emerging area in the law.
"There's established case law on physical abuse," Winnie said. "There's not the same sort of markers and guidance on emotional abuse. We're all sort of feeling our way here. This is an area that needs to be addressed by the courts."
He said similar issues involving removals of children due to emotional abuse also are surfacing in San Diego and San Bernardino counties.
Jury must decide
In his ruling, Zimmerman did not find, however, that another county social services employee, Katherine Moore, or the county were liable in the case. Those issues must be decided by the jury.
The case dates back to April 20, 2000, when the boys were removed from their home by Black, an emergency response worker, who had arrived with several police officers for an unannounced visit, a filing by Beauvais said.
She was responding to an evaluation in a San Francisco Superior Court Family Court case on a custody/visitation proceeding by the twins' biological father.
An evaluation of the boys said they were "socially isolated by their homeschooling mother," according to court papers by Beauvais. The report recommended that the Social Services Agency monitor the boys, that the boys get long-term therapy and that they be put in public school.
In court papers filed by Deputy County Counsel Jeanine Nadel, she said Black determined that the boys "were anxious and withdrawn. In her report prepared after the removal she reported that one of the boys 'appeared to be frightened and closed down emotionally.'"
Emotional dysfunction
The county said Black was "confronted with two children who were exhibiting signs of emotional dysfunction which was of grave concern at the time of the visit."
Black was further concerned by a statement allegedly made by Moodian to her sons: "These people are not going to rape and kill you."
In his filing, Beauvais said Moodian denied making such a statement.
He said Moodian initially refused to allow Black to enter, asking if she had a warrant. She relented and let her in after calling her attorney and winning assurances from Black that she would not take the children.
"Patricia would not have let her in if she had known that Black intended to take the children, but instead would have insisted that she get a warrant," Beauvais' court filing said.
I have been doing this research on the abuses of the system for over a year now, and still I see things that amaze me! This is just amazing that they would ASSURE her that they will not ake the children, and even assure the lawyer that they won't, then they do it anyway! Is there ANYTHING these vultures won't stoop to?
I am glad to see someone is trying to help. I have a friend who's grandchildren were being physically, and emotionally abused by their mother and her lover while
the kids dad was away in the military.My friend contacted his son and aided him in every way including financially to get his children out of this abusive situation. The children were given to his son with placement on the children with him and his wife. The mother had supervised visitation until she completed parenting classed, anger management, child abuse classes. She didn't attempt to complete any classes at all. The mother and my friend'son got back together after a few months and the son wanted to put the mother back in charge of the kids. My friend and his wife refuse to let that happen because they had shared custody with their son and the mother had taken no steps to address her problems, which also included drugs and alcohol problems. What happen next was the mother's mother filed a cps charge against my friend and his wife saying my friend hit his grandson with a belt and she provided pictures to the social worker.
The worker interview the 2 year old and couldn't get him to say who hit and then the 5 year old who was supposed to have said my friend hit him once. The worker never check him for marks.My friend never hit his grandson with a belt and believe that the abuse mother did it in an attempt to get the children back.
The worker sustained the report that my friend did it because the 5 year old said it and the statements they gave about injuries did match the marks on the child.
My friend were not aware of any marks and told the worker if there were any injuries they must have got them play and boys do. The worker never came to the boys home. My friend and his wife filed for guardianship of their grandson and it was granted. Their son and the mother were trying to take the kids out of state. The son request the cps report so he could get leave to come back for the permanent hearing on the guardianship.The worker wrote up a letter to Whom it May Concern which had my friends name and his grandson and exact detail about his finding and exact details about part of the investigation and gave it to my friends son.The letter never stated that my friend denied the charge at all. The letter was use aganist my friend causing an investigation by the court in the guardianship proceeding.The letter was shown to members of the son's military organization and other people. My friends did get custody of the children, thank god. The letter caused my friend serious emotion problem requiring counseling to this date. This happen in 1998 October. My friend sued the county and the social worker for defamation, Negligent infliction of emotion distress, negligence, Invasion of privacy (Ca State constitution). He is in the process of trying to add Federal constitutional invasion of privacy. His case has servives demurrer, summary judgment, and has has three trial dates. His son has turned on him and accused him of abusing him and his mother which is all lies because it never happen. The kids mother and his son filed another cps report alleging that he and his wife were allowing the kids to molest each other. Cps investigates and it was ruled unfounded because it was not true. They have tried everything to get the kid taken away. The social worker violated my friends rights and aided his son in his quest to get children.
My friend has not been able to work since and he just had completed a 2 year course in Electronic with a degree costing $20,000 plus when all this occurred.
CPS has almost wreck my friends life and they offered $10,001 dollars to settle the case. If anyone can provide any information that might help my friend please send any info.
THIS STORY ABOUGHT ME WINING MY KID'S IN JASPER COUNTY TEXAS IN A JURY TRIAL FULL COUSTODY AFTER A YEAR AND WHEN MY ATTORNEY AT THE TIME TRANSFERED MY CASE TO ORANGE COUNTY TEXAS I LOST WITHIN A FEW MONTH'S AFTER MY X-IN-LAW'S FILED OVER 47 FALSELY PROVEN CHILD ABUSE REPORT'S AGAINEST ME IN LESS THAN A YEAR,YET BEFOR MY CASE WAS CLOSED OUT CASA WORKER'S FROM ORANGE COUNTY TEXAS WRITE'S JUDGE HAUN TELLING HIM THEY WERE REQUESTING REMOVIAL OF MY KID'S TO TEMPORY FOSTER CARE CAUSE THERE WAS MORE THAN ENOUGH PROOF THAT TO THERE FINDING'S OF ENOUGH REAL NOT BOGUS PROOF THAT THE HOME PROVED TO GO FROM EXCEPTABLE IN THE BEGAINING TO WHAT FILE'S STATE WENT TO EXTREM DANGER,JACK WAS EVER DONE FOR THE TRUE SAFE GARD OF MY CHILDREN.THANK'S TO THOSE CUNNING CHILD ABUSER'S I HAVEN'T SEEN OR GOT TO SPEAK TO MY CHILDREN SINCE DECEMBER OF 1998 AND THOSE PEOPLE HAVE PULLED LOADED GUN'S ON ME IN THE PAST.I HAVE TRYED TO GET SOUTH EAST TEXAS LEGAL SERVICES TO HELP ME AND NOTHING.IF SOMEONE ANY WHERE HAS ANY ADVICE PLEASE FEEL FREE TO E-MAIL ME AT lilcatgirl2006@yahoo.com or call me at 4093861344.YOU SEE I'M ON SSI OF ONLY $603.00 A MONTH AND THE ATTORNEY THAT HAS OFFERED HER SERVICES TO GET MY KID'S THERE OWN VOICE IN COURT,BUT SHE IS REQUESTING A RETAINER FEE OF $1,500.00 WHEN EVERYONE ELSE WANT'S $5,000.00.MY X-BROTHER-IN-LAW WAS SLEEPING WITH HIS 14 YEAR OLD FIRST COUSIN WHEN HE WAS IN HIS EARLY 30'S AND EVEN LATER MARRIED ANOTHER OF HIS OLDER FIRST COUSIN'S ON HIS MOTHER'S SIDE FROM JASPER AND SHE HAD A HEART ATTACK AND DIED SHORTLY AFTER I DIVORCED THE KID'S FATHER.THIS IS A SICK MINDED FAMILY AND WHY THIS JUDGE ALLOWED THEM TO GET BYE WITH ALL THIS JUST BECAUSE THOSE PEOPLE FACKED THE APEARANCE OF CHRISTIAN'S TO DECIEVE THE JUDGE AND THE FACT THAT I HAD KNOW ATTORNEY DOES NOT MAKE THIS A RIGHT THING FOR THEM TO GET BYE WITH.