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What's a Mother to Do?
By Karen Marie Dunn
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Tampa, Florida: What's a Mother to do? The State steps in- invades your privacy -- your children are frightened -- the mother is caught in a web of do's and don'ts controlled by outside counselors who are irresponsible. What's a mother to do?
DCF (Hillsborough County - Department of Children and Families has a twisted agenda -- approximately 50% of their investigations are unsubstantiated (48.42%) and/or intentionally false (.43%). DCF guilty as sin!
Floridians are outraged. Lies, cover-ups and mismanagement blamed on everything including the computer software provided to maintain efficiency.
Thursday, May 30, 2001, DCF sold dozens of boxes of confidential files, private, personal, psychiatric evaluations, aid patient information, sensitive documents at auction.
JULY/AUGUST 2000
Supreme Court Affirms Family Rights The U.S. Supreme Court strongly affirmed family rights last month when it ruled that the state couldn't interfere with a parent's chosen method of child rearing unless the parent had been deemed unfit. Recent federal court rulings establish clearly the right of families to be FREE of unwarranted government intrusion into their daily lives. The rulings further establish that government officials may be held personally liable in a court of law for OVERSTEPPING their authority and trampling the sanctity of the family. The court upheld that in the absence of "exigent circumstances," a government official may NOT enter a home without a search warrant, specifically stating, "Any government official can be held to know that their office does NOT given them an unrestricted right to enter peoples' homes at will," and that families have a "well-established right to privacy from inspections by social workers."
Hillsborough County community is in a crisis because of DCF's "testaliars" and incompetent handling of cases and harassment of families. Government caretakers are ill equipped to raise children -- they can't even keep track of their whereabouts --- What Happened to Rilya Wilson? It is extremely disheartening when DCF looses children "wards of the court," "wards of the state," -- after DCF snatches them? How dare they take children away from parents and families on trumped up charges from an angry/abusive spouse -- using children as pawns? DCF abuses their authority and takes advantage of young mothers. Scaring them to death and placing undo stress on an already unstable situation. Children are NOT invisible, they DO understand something is wrong when interrogated by a stranger and police cars abound and they are kidnapped and see the mother's outrage, hurt and fear.
Hillsborough County, Florida seeks volunteers: www.myflorida.com or Hillsborough Kids 813-225-1105. Volunteers, money, supplies, food, clothing, etc., is needed. Can you help?
What is the world to do with irresponsible, abusive "baby makers" (aka/psuedo- parents), who do battle fighting over unwanted, unsupported and unloved children? What is a mother to do when she does love her children and does choose to take care of them and the State-DCF steps in and shatters her life and scares her children and places threatening demands on her, using her children as collateral -- as the bartering chip -- forcing the mother go to counselors, doctors; demand children be placed in child care at 8 months old? What's a mother to do?
One Version of a Hillsborough County Case Scenario:
Married at 17 and widowed at 21, Mary is diagnosed bipolar and disabled from clinical depression. While grieving, a 34 year old male takes advantage of her state of health and she gets pregnant. Her fault? The man swore he had a vasectomy. When he learns of the pregnancy, he becomes abusive (caught in a lie). The beginning of physical and mental abuse, domestic violence, police involvement, injunctions, kidnapping, and -- last but not least -- DCF to the rescue or NOT !!!
They never marry -- she is totally disabled -- paternity is proven and child support is court ordered. This man has a long criminal record for stalking, criminal mischief, battery, burglary, violation of injunctions as well as an alcohol and drug abuser. When he had visitation the child was returned to the mother with a burned hand and a dislocated arm. Surprised?
In 2000, a new man enters the scenario, she gets pregnant again and he preys on her emotional and mental condition promising family life, apartment, stability, etc.
He persuades her to refinance her truck for $1,000 to set up housekeeping, however, once the check arrives, he takes off and she is left pregnant again. In 2001, Father #1 returns and demands visitation and of course, kidnapping, child abuse, police involvement, etc.
March 2002: DCF to the rescue? Father #2's aunt called and asked for visitation?
Mary allowed supervised visitation with the father's aunt. While the children were visiting the aunt, DCF social worker demanded the apartment manager to unlock and enter Mary's apartment. She was sleeping on the couch and rudely awakened and confronted by a stranger in her own apartment - According to the Supreme Court, "The court upheld that in the absence of "exigent circumstances", a government official may NOT enter a home without a search warrant, specifically stating, "Any government official can be held to know that their office does NOT given them an unrestricted right to enter peoples' homes at will," and that families have a "well-established right to privacy from inspections by social workers. This is invasion of privacy, harassment, and unlawful.
After the DCF visit, Mary had a difficult time finding her children. The Aunt decided she would keep them. After 24 hours of pleading, begging, crying, searching and seeking, Mary did find her children and had to physically take them away from the aunt which caused a fight. The aunt threw a glass of liquid on Mary -- the police were called, however, they talked Mary out of filing charges. Why? What's a mother to do?
DCF advised Mary to go to a psychiatrist, put the children in day care, meet on a scheduled basis with a social worker IF SHE DIDN'T WANT TO LOOSE HER BABIES. What's a mother to do?
For months, Mary has been cooperating with DCF. Mary, however, sees no improvement. Mary had to leave her apartment and move in with her grandparents for protection and security for her babies. The 2 1/2 year old has had a few accident reports from the day care. The day care worker has suggested that her 8 month old baby go to therapy because he doesn't feed himself and SHE doesn't have the time at day care to provide that SERVICE.
What's a mother to do? She MUST follow the DCF guidelines to keep HER children although, the DCF system is horrendous, unconscionable, unorganized, unreliable, unlawful and is traumatizing the mother, her family and most importantly her babies. What's a mother to do? What can a mother do, entangled in a web of underfunded, understaffed, overworked, overburdened, overwhelmed social workers who falsify records -- that is, if they even write, use the computer system or file REAL reports. Mary has asked to see the reports written about her situation several times. Finally, she was advise that for a fee of about $200 she could obtain a copy of these reports. What's a mother to do?
Where is DCF ? I have personally seen the needy, deprived, starving, abused, neglected children in Tampa in the ghetto areas (Martin Luther King and 275); several projects in the Tampa Bay Area. Where is DCF? They are really needed to SAVE children who are starving in a drug infested environment and neglected.
Mary loves her children and takes good care of them. She takes her medications and maintains stability. Mary is just exhausted from jumping through the DCF hoops to KEEP her children safe from harm.
What's a Mother to Do?????
AUTHOR'S NOTE: This is a case senario from the mother's perspective and it is one sided based on her information only. There was no input from the Fathers nor their families. I also was in a similar situation where the police allowed my husband to push open the front door knocking me down so he could enter even though there was an injunction. Police are good and BAD -- men stick together so WOMAN have no alternative but to do the same.
Mother's love is precious, priceless and canNOT be replaced. Father's love is precious, priceless and canNOT be replace --- but but but, just who really cares or is concerned about the children and not themselves? Why do parents shoot arrows through the childs heart in order to harm the other parent? What are the percentages?
Reference: "Indivisible Little Child" (Divorce) in my poetry category.
Actor Kevin Coster mother was a formal social worker.
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I meet Actor Kevin Costner on July 2002. His mother was a formal social worker. He came up to me in a bar in the City of Alameda. He wanted to know about my life. Kevin is very sexy man, but don't get on his bad side. I recorded his voice on April 10, 2002, when he called me. Do you want to know more? email me.
mothers_friend@hotmail.com
I met Kevin Costner on July 2000. He can be reach at;
Tig Production
100 Universal City Plaza, Building 1320, 1st floor
Los Angeles,CA 91608
(818)777-2737
Fax (818) 733-5616
Kevin Costner is a man that likes all kinds of women. He likes making love to diffrent woman. His mother was a formal social worker. He can't seem to keep a relationship. He is over sex.
I'm going to write a screenplay on my contact with Kevin Costner. If you like a copy of the tape with Kevin Costner voice on April 10, 2002, send $5.00.
Send to Gloria Guerra
P.O. Box 1212
Alameda, CA 94501
Thanks for your input on the screenplay, I sent you. The Guerra’s Case. I decided I will look for another production company, who will be interested in my screenplay. The story is continuing and the legislation of changes in juvenile laws may take place. I’m still fighting for law’s to be better in the juvenile courts, and to give parents due process of laws. Kevin I received your message on my answering machine on date April 10, 2002. The person said he was you. Our conversation was that you will be calling me soon. I have the message to prove it. Anyways you said over the phone that you never came to the bay area (510) area code. Alameda County. A friend of mine told me that her daughter teacher saw you in Oakland, CA a few years ago and had allot of school children with her, she told me you signed your name, and bought donates for all the children, is this true? On around July 2000 I told you I met you in the City of Alameda, California in a bar called the Shamrock. I told you that you had followed me in the bay area, and that you were wearing light brown shorts and your hair was longer blond, you had long side burns, and you had light brown shoes. My Indian friend was drunk, but I was not. You sat one bar stool away from me. My friend started to talk to you; she was an older Indian lady. I had long dark hair in a pony tail at the time. I was wearing dark glasses and wearing a silver sweater, and had black pants. You decided to move next to me, you asked me if I wanted you to buy me a beer. You bought me a beer. You bought a beer for my Indian friend, a friend of mine yelled out buy me a beer, and you said buy your own beer. You bought me and my friend a beer anyways. The bartender said she knew who you were later. You asked me where I was from, and asked me about my life. You seemed interested in me at the time. I asked you a question; I asked you what did you do for a living? You said you was an actor, and you been acting for a long time. You told me that you had gone to college in California, and you had studied Business Administration then later acting. You said you knew Tom Hanks, and that he was from the bay area, and you said you did a movie with him, is this true? I asked you did you like what you did for a living? You told me, you love it. You told me you met your wife in a play, and you were with her for a long time, is this true? Later you said you divorce her, and you told me you had children by her. You told me you cared a lot for your children. You told me at the time you had a relationship, with a woman you met, and you were living with her. You did not want to tell me more or less where you lived. I told you if I had all that money, I would not know what to do with it. I told you it’s what in your soul not what you have. I think you started to like me because you reach over and held my hand. I allowed you to hold my hand, because I needed someone to comfort me. I told you I was homeless, that I had lost my apartment at the time. I also told you I had written a screenplay. You asked me what it was about. I told you it’s like a present; I could not let the present be told yet. You see I was waiting for the right time to maybe tell you. But I wanted to get to know you first. When you held my hand, you asked me a question. You told me you would like to have a relationship with me. You also said get a little bit lose. You said take off my sun glasses look in your eyes. I took off my sun glasses, and you stared in my brown eyes, and your eyes were a deep blue. I wonder when you asked me to have a relationship with you, if it was the beer you were drinking or did you not meant it. You touch my body and I push your hand away, by saying wait. You went to the bathroom, and came back. We talked for sometime in the bar. I did not know you were an actor at the time, but I saw you were a good person inside. I met you as a person for what the real you was, not some actor everyone wants to be with. I could have slept with you, but I did not. I did not get your signature; I wanted to wait for the right time. Instead I guess you decided to get ready and leave. So you walked out of the bar, and me and my friend followed you behind. You walked toward your truck and got in. I waived good by to you. For two years I looked for you by the bar, but I never saw you again. Until I read the Globe newspaper about your breakup with your girlfriend. That is when I decided to look you up. That is when I decided to look for you. I had to look for you. I told another friend lets go to Hollywood where your production company Tig, and try to look you up. So off we went the first time April 2002 and it was too late to reach you, the studio was closed, and I left a message. You had called me back April 10, 2002, I had spoken to you, and you told me you did not drive yourself and that you had someone drive you around in a limo. The conversation was asked what I was wearing, and a sexual fantasy took place, as if it was a dream man, having sex over the phone. I went back looking for you, and you were not there. So I wanted to leave the screenplay, you asked me about in the past. Sarah your clerk said you were not there, Sarah seemed over the phone as if she had an affair with you. She seemed upset that I was looking for you. Kevin later I received a letter of rejection of the screenplay, with no ones name signed below. What is going on? I asked Sarah were you at the studio April 2002, she said no. Kevin you have so many women after you. But you told me on April 10, 2002 that you never met me, and that you never came to the bay area, what is the real truth? I’m around your age; don’t you like women your age? I still care for you as a person, screenplay or not. I met a good man inside, not just an actor every woman want or just sex. I see you different, you already prove to me you are not just looking for just sex. I was very upset with you, and I thought you were just after women to have sex with, different women. Maybe when a man hurts you, you feel like he never cared for you, he only wanted a one night stand. Anyways I hope I could see your face and talk to you in person, to see for myself that you were not the Kevin I met or were you? I will be moving next year to Hollywood, CA, maybe. Maybe I could talk to you and see as the person you really are.
I know you did a movie with Kevin Costner called Bull Durhan (1988)
You are a very good playing your part as one of his lovers. I just wish I was in your shoes. Well you might think this is really crazy, but I think I met actor Kevin Costner on July 2000 in the City of Alameda, California in a small bar called the Shamrock Pub called Webster Street in the City of Alameda, CA. He asked me about my life. Kevin is a very sexy man, but when I had spoken to him April 10, 2002. He said he never met me. A friend of mine told me around that time Kevin Costner came to Oakland, CA and signed his name for a teacher and bought donuts for the children. Kevin said he never came around their at the time. Well I thought I could write to you because Kevin Costner told me he would talk to me soon, this was April 10, 2002. He never called me back. I still have the same phone number, and he has not called me. I'm wondering if you have seen him. If so can you please tell Kevin to call me? I'm still waiting for Kevin to call me back. I know he is in Canada some were doing a movie for Walt Disney called the open Range a western movie. I sent him a screenplay called The Guerra's Case. I don't know if this got him mad. I just sent it to him because at the time he asked me what the screenplay was about. But I wanted to wait for the right time. I did not want any money for this screenplay. I just wanted him to look at it. When I met Kevin Costner I did not know he was an actor, I really liked him for what was inside of him. But he told me about his girlfriend at the time, and I wanted to wait for the right time. I looked for him for two years, and could not locate him, until April 10, 2002 he called me. I care for him. I?m around your age, but not so pretty. I just like talking to him, I miss talking to him. He could of got to know me. I know I'm not rich like him or as pretty as some women, but I still have feelings like any other women. I seen some of your movies and I think you are just so wonderful. You are so pretty; I would like to learn from you. I'm thinking on moving next year to West Hollywood and taking up classes on stage make-up, maybe I could get a job in a Production Company. My kids are grown; my boyfriend who I went with for nine years treated me so bad. When I met Kevin Costner I was homeless and needed a friend. He held my hand and gave me hope; I miss that in a person. So now I'm dreaming and thinking someday I could me you and Kevin Costner. I read a book about Kevin Costner life and how he tried so hard to get where he is, it was not an easy road for him, from what I read of his life before he became an actor. I like Kevin very much and don't think he understands how I feel about him. I really want to see him again; he is all I think about every day. I tried to write to him, and I never get a respond from anyone in his Tig Productions. You are my hope and I'm hoping you can help me. This letter may not get anywhere but I hope someone picks this letter up and understands how I feel. I don't know why I feel this way for a man who does not contact me. I don't know what is wrong with me. I was not his fan, I just think I met a wonderful man of my dreams, and can not reach him again. I don't care about if his rich or poor or a movie star. I just would have loved to have spoken to him again. The real truth about it, I would have liked to see this man and to know if his the man I met July 2000 in the City of Alameda, California in a small bar called the Shamrock Pub.
One of Hollywood's most prominent strong, silent types, Kevin Costner was for several years the celluloid personification of the baseball industry. The actor made an indelible mark with baseball-themed hits like Bull Durham and Field of Dreams, as well as his epic Western Dances with Wolves. Although several flops in the late '90s diminished his bank ability, for many the actor remained one of the
A native of California, Costner was born January 18, 1955, in Lynnwood. While a marketing student at California State University in Fullerton, he became involved with community theater. Upon graduation in 1978, Costner took a marketing job that lasted all of 30 days before deciding to take a crack at acting. After an inauspicious 1974 film debut in the ultra-cheapie Sizzle Beach USA, Costner decided to take a more serious approach to acting. Venturing down the usual theater-workshop, multiple-audition route, the actor impressed casting directors who weren't really certain of how to use him. That may be one reason why Costner's big-studio debut in Night Shift (1982) consisted of little more than background decoration, and the subsequent Frances (1982) featured the hapless young actor as an off-stage voice.
Director Lawrence Kasdan liked Costner enough to cast him in the important role of the suicide victim who motivated the plot of The Big Chill (1983). Unfortunately, all that was visible of the actor -- who had turned down Matthew Broderick's role in WarGames to take the part -- was part of his dress suit, along with a fleeting glimpse of his hairline and hands as the undertaker prepared him for burial during the opening credits. Two years later, a guilt-ridden Kasdan chose Costner for a major part as a hell-raising gunfighter in the "retro" western Silverado (1985), this time putting him in front of the camera for virtually the entire film. The actor's big break came two years later as he burst on the screen in two major films, No Way Out and The Untouchables; his growing popularity was further amplified with a brace of baseball films, released within months of one another. In Bull Durham (1988), the actor was taciturn minor-league ballplayer Crash Davis, and in the following year's Field of Dreams he was Ray Kinsella, a farmer who constructs a baseball diamond in his Iowa cornfield at the repeated urging of a voice that intones "If you build it, he will come."
Riding high on the combined box-office success of these films, Costner was able to make his directing debut. With a minuscule budget of 18 million dollars, he went off to the Black Hills of South Dakota to film the first Western epic that Hollywood had seen in years, a revisionist look at American Indian-White relationships titled Dances With Wolves (1990). Detractors had a field day with this supposedly doomed project, labeling the film "Costner's Folly" and "Kevin's Gate." But the film, in addition to being one of 1990's biggest moneymakers, also took home a slew of Academy Awards, including statues for Best Picture and Best Director.
Costner's luck continued with the 1991 costume epic Robin Hood: Prince of Thieves; this, too, made money, though it seriously strained Costner's longtime friendship with the film's director, the notoriously erratic Kevin Reynolds. The same year, Costner had another hit on his hands with Oliver Stone's JFK. The next year's The Bodyguard, a film which teamed Costner with Whitney Houston, did so well at the box-office that it seemed the actor could do no wrong. However, his next film, A Perfect World (1993), directed by Clint Eastwood and casting the actor against type as a half-psycho, half-benign prison escapee, was a major disappointment, even though Costner himself came through with a strong performance. More bad luck followed Perfect World in the form of another cast-against-type failure, the 1994 Western Wyatt Earp, which proved that even director Lawrence Kasdan could have his off days.
Adding insult to injury, Costner's 1995 epic sci-fi adventure Waterworld received an enormous amount of negative publicity prior to opening due to its ballooning budget and bloated schedule, and cemented industry misgivings by failing colossally at the box office. The following year, Costner was able to rebound somewhat with the romantic comedy Tin Cup, which was well-received by the critics and the public alike. Unfortunately, he chose to followed this up with another directorial effort, an epic filmization of author David Brin's The Postman. The 1997 film featured Costner as a Shakespeare-spouting drifter in a post-nuclear holocaust America whose efforts to reunite the country give him messianic qualities. Like Waterworld, The Postman (waggishly dubbed "Dryworld" by critics) received a critical drubbing and did poorly with audiences. Costner's reputation, now at an all-time low, received some resuscitation with the 1998 romantic drama Message in a Bottle, and later the same year he returned to the genre that loved him best with Sam Raimi's baseball drama For Love of the Game. A thoughtful reflection on the Cuban missile crisis provided the groundwork for the successful Thirteen Days (2000), though Costner's next turn as a member of a group of Elvis impersonating casino bandits drew harsh criticism for its pointless and excessive violence, relegating it to a quick death at the box office. Though Costner's next effort was a more sentimental supernatural drama lamenting lost love, Dragonfly (2002) was dismissed by many as a cheap clone of The Sixth Sense and met an almost equally hasty, though notably less outright despised fate. ~ Hal Erickson, All Movie Guide
Please call me if CPS has taken your children for no good reason, and you never abused your child or children. Call at (510) 496-6000 ext 110
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December 24, 2005, everything was going right. My wife had a baby boy named Peter, given the name in memory of her dead dad, at the time we were involved with DCF (CT). She gave birth to a baby boy 6 pounds and 14oz with 19” 5/8 inches at St Francis Hospital of Hartford the baby was a 9.9 in qualification of hospital internal birth the kid is perfect, everything was nice with no problems at all she was able to keep the baby in her arms take in care of him, we have a full family visitation the older kids fell in love with their new baby brother something to hard to explain in words (When the heart speak for his self) and both kids were saying: --Dad this is the best Christmas ever. We went back home my stepson James and I were preparing my 03 boys for Christmas morning (waiting for Santa to come) Everything was fine and the happiness was in the Christmas morning like all the families around the world accepted for mom because she was alone in the hospital With the baby (Well a list she was with someone special) we keep calling her all day long to keep her company so she wouldn’t feel so alone, a the night we when to visit again the kids have got a digital picture machine for present from ” Santa Claus” when to register and take some pictures of Peter the new bourn baby was funny for all .At the December 26 my wife crying call me saying
-- The DCF worker is here to take the baby from us
-- I say, Way?
-- She told me she was tested positive with substance abuse.
I was destroyed to here something like that and ran to the hospital, she got thrown out of the hospital with no chance to explained or do understand what is going on. DCF had Monday off (Because the Holliday was Sunday) but the investigator in service come to my house and saw nothing wrong and let me keep the other kids. T That’s where my dream started to turn into a nightmare; well we finish the day with an 8:00 PM visit for one hour and a new visit at the next day at 8:00 AM. We went to sleep, woke up in the mourning and started to make some phone calls to the “social worker”. She was told me to go get a baby sitter or the baby will never come home. I run all mourning long and finely I was able to find someone to help me because I’m the only working person in my house to support my entire family. I gave the social worker a call and she said
--We are in meeting and that’s not the answer for your family yet
--What are you talking about? She hung up the phone on me after accusing me of NEGLECT of my children’s safety saying that I knew my wife was doing drugs and I did know she was pregnant and never told her (What of kind a Social Work could not see her client have a big belly? And she is having a baby, come on. “DECEMBER, 23 2005 AT 3:38 PM THE HOUSE INPECTOR (SOCIAL WORKER) FROM DCF “LATE AGAIN” WAS IN MY HOME VISITING THE FAMILY AND COULD NOT NOTICE MY WIFE WAS PREGNANT ONE DAY BEFORE SHE DELIVERED THE BABY? (Wake up Connecticut). Well I finished negotiating with the baby sitter and was on my way back home. When I get there were 02 Police cruisers (very nice and educate officers) and 02 DCF workers taking my 03 children away from us? She serves me with a copy of a paper with her signature in ink pen and the supervisor pre made form to take my kids (96 Hours Removal). My wife offered to leave the house since she was the one who was using drugs at the beginning of the pregnancy. (34-10-2 Alternatives to removal) the social worker said “ no” (against my constitutional rights) After that was almost impossible to contact the “social worker” finely after hours in the phone my wife get hold of her she did set up visitation with my big kids A is 8 and F is 7 years old who were crying and scared of all that around the poor innocents little boys who is student of the mount for 2 years in the consecutive and up to the date having receive a lot of co decorations in the school year, then she went on vacation leaving us with no information at all about the others 2 kids, who she said she would arrange a visit with G just 16 mounts and P one week today,Dec.31,2005 Just God know what’s going on with the baby’s. The 96 hours came and went, yet we never received a copy of an (OTC) order of temporary custody. We are trying to contact someone to help us. My wife asked our social worker back in Sept. to get her back into a treatment program. Yet it was never done. She showed up at our house 15 minutes before an appointment she never told my wife about. It was impossible for her to get herself and our 17 month old ready in enough time. Then there was another appointment my car would not start and she called her to get a ride. She said she could not do it. We went for another court hearing on Dec 8, 2005 which she said she would get her back into treatment before Dec 23, 2005 it never happened. So here we are today with no kids feeling lost and no way of knowing how two younger kids are. We talk to the two older ones ever day and are going on are second visit tomorrow yet we haven’t seen or know nothing about our 17 month old or the new baby who is only one week old. My wife and I have not held our newborn baby since Tuesday morning it is now Sunday January 1, 2006. We spent the holiday with no kids. We passed the New Year trying to learn about CT DCF laws and our rights as parents trying to prepare ourselves for our court hearing on Fri Jan 6th, 2006 we hope. My wife has been suffering and feeling empty inside as she had her baby ripped from her arms. I have not been able to bond with my new son and have been in no condition to work, as I feel like my life has ended because I’ve lost my kids, my boys, and my life. Please if there is anybody out there that can help us please. Don’t let DCF destroy one more family. I know my wife was wrong but she needs help not to be punished the way we are. My children have never been physical or emotionally abused. They are very good boys. The home they went to (The Village) even said they were a breath of fresh air compared to the kids that they normally get. They said they were very well behaved and very well educated. Please anybody who can help please contact us. We need all the help we can get together to make us stronger so we in turn can help others. (As stated in legislation bill #5024 AAC Concerning the Protection of Children Suffering from Fetal Alcohol Syndrome or Narcotic Withdrawal) “A Mother who meets the two criteria’s put forth in this bill is a mother who needs help, not a "CHILD ABUSER". {By Donna Campbell, LCSW Executive Director
“SUCCES IS NOT FINAL, FAILURE IS NOT FATAL: IT IS THE COURAGE TO CONTINUE THAT COUNTS”
I SEND MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. I TO HAD MY NEWBORN RIPPED OUT OF MY ARMS ON AUGUST 31ST 2006 AT ST.RAPHEALS HOSPITOL FOR "PREDICTED NEGLECT"! I HAVE 5 OTHER CHILDREN 3 RESIDE WITH THERE DAD AND MY OTHER 2 GIRLS WERE TAKEN FROM ME IN MARCH OF THIS YEAR BECAUSE I FELL A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. IM NOW IN A SAFE HOME WITH A FRIEND AND HAVE EVERYTHING AND MORE FOR MY BABYS ARRIVAL HOME. DCF CAME HERE SAW EVERYTHING AND EVEN BROUGHT ME THINGS FOR THE BABY JUST TO KNOW THAT THEY HAD EVERY INTENTION TO TAKE MY CHILD BEFORE I GOT TO BRING HER HOME.
For California people: Meeting at State Capital June 18, 2002
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From: Mothers Friend
P.O. Box 1212
Alameda, CA 94501
Mothers_friend@hotmail.com
(510) 496-6000 ext 110
Re: Health and Human Services in California
There will be a meeting on June 18, 2002
Time: 1:30 p.m.
At the State Capital Room 437 1st floor
Our State Assembly person Dion Louise Aroner is the chair of Health and Human Services. There will be seven members in the committee, out of the seven members, there is a vote of four or more, if it will pass and go to our Governor Gray Davis, then he will decide if the bill will pass or not. Most of these issues deal with the Welfare & Institution laws. Child Protective Services has passed many laws behind many voters backs, so please get involve in this issue. So we the people can have due process of laws for the parent’s best interest and our children best interest as well.
My children were all taken by WA state years ago. It took 5 years to get everyone back home, and the caseworker lost her job.(small compensation) My children are all grown now, and are interested in filing suit against the State of Washington regarding thier abduction and imprisonment in foster care, and the abuse and neglect they experianced as a result.
Any information to point them in the right direction would be greatly appreciated.
MY DAUGHTERS WAS 4 YEARS OLD WHEN SHE WAS SEXALY ASSAUALTED BY A 7 YEAR OLD KID , THEY SAID IT WAS MY FAULT BECAUSE I LEFT THEM ALONE IN A ROOM TO WATCH A VIDEO TAPE THE FOX AND HOUND KIDS VIDEO AND THEY TOOK MY DAUGHTER FROM ME AND PUT HER INTO AN INSTUT. AND DID NOTHING WITH THE SEVEN YEAR OLD, I,M STILL FIGHTING TO GET HER BACK.
these matters where cps can do as they please has to stop... you can not give someone the privlage of being above the law , and making dicissions that can totally alter and ruin a persons life with out any repercussions to their actions... judges,lawyers and cps workers do not have to worry about being charged with any law suits even if someones life is destroyed due to predutice, not doing their job! ( investigating the case with out judgment on the accuser) it is getting way out of hand and nobody will stand against it as they are on shakey ground and feel the percentile rate for falsley accussed ppl are far less then those rightfully accused... we need to define the laws and proceedures of investagations,,, i would like to get ppl together to push this , but i always hit rock solid walls !!!!
I have a friend who is fighting for her son, Kody, who recently, under the influence of state-administered drugs, killed another boy while in foster care. She recently got a real lawyer, and he pretty much strong-armed cps into telling her where they had moved her son, after a month of silence. Luckily, he was moved to another foster family, instead of detention.
Plus, these folks are needing some closure in another case. The father had been a trucker, and was recently in a very bad accident. The other guy was high on PCP, but the worst part was the other guy also had a 2 year old boy with him. Both died on impact, but luckily, my friend's husband came out ok, physically, but not mentally or emotionally. The poor guy's a mess. He knows, logically, that it wasn't his fault, but his heart tells him it is-survivor's guilt.
They are seeking counseling for this, the man will no longer drive semis again. I am looking for ways to help them overcome this, looking for pages dealing with survivor's guilt and PTSD. This, plus fighting for their son, their plate is very full, so I am trying to help as much as possible. I have found a few pages, but need more.
TO THOSE WHO CARE FOR OUR KID'S WHEN KNOW ONE ELSE DOES.MY NAME IS KATHERINE ELAINE GREENWOOD AND THIS IS MY STORY TO THOSE WHO LISTEN AND CARE.I HAVEN'T SEEN OR SPOKEN TO MY KID'S SINCE DECEMBER OF 1998 CAUSE I'D WON FULL COUSTODY IN A JURY TRIAL THAT TOOK PLACE IN JASPER COUNTY TEXAS IN 1997 AND SINCE I WAS LIVING IN ORANGE COUNTY TEXAS IN VIDOR THE CASE GOT TRANSFERED THERE TO JUDGE BUDDY HAUNS COURT WHERE HE ALLOWED MYEX-IN-LAW'S MARGIE ELLEN Y'BARBO FROM KIRBYVILLE TEXAS TO FILE 47 FALSE CHILD ABUSE REPORT'S AGAINEST ME IN LESS THAN ONE YEAR,YET CASA OF ORANGE COUNTY TRYED TO AT THE END PRETECT MY KID'S BY REQUESTING THAT MY CHILDREN BE COURT ORDORED OUT OF THAT HOME PLACED IN TEMPORY FOSTER CARE UNTIL THEY COULD BE SENT BACK TO ME AND CASA'S GREATEST CONCERN'S WERE THROWN OUT AND JUDGE BUDDY HAUN GAVE COUSTODY TO THOSE PEOPLE AND HEAD SUPIOUR VISIOR IN JASPER COUNTY TEXAS SO HAPPENS TO HAVE GONE TO SCHOOL WITH MY EX-MOTHER-IN-LAW.CASA FOR JUST A SAMPLE # 1 PROOF CASA FOUND EYE WITTNESS ACOUNT THAT WHEN MY SON RAY WAS ONLY 5 YEARS OLD WAS SEEN SITTING IN THE LIVING ROOM FLOOR TUMBING THROUGH A PORN MAGAZINE THAT BELONG TO MY EX-BROTHER-IN-LAW TO WHOM WAS LIVING RIGHT ACROSS THE HALE FROM MY GIRL'S .CALL ME FOR THE REST OF THE STORY AND I'D BE MORE THAN HAPPY TO TELL YOU WHY ONE CASA WORKER EVEN QUIT 409-=386-1932 ASK FOR KATHERINE
this is my new home address 655 south archie street #8 vidor,texas 77662 and my home phone # is 4097839138 or 4097839132.i still haven't seen or spoken to my children and my ex-husband called me out of the blue the other day and stated for me not to send birthday card's any more and that my kid's didn't want to see me.well i do not believe that and i have a really nice place for them to come see me.
my children are still in an abusive home!who want's to help me get them out.
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these 3 children are mine and i am in need of $5,000.00 for my attorney in jasper county texas to have the case transfered back to jasper county texas from orange county texas where he can set it for a jury trial to have my kid's in court to speak for themselves.i have a really nice apartment now and i'm most stable thanks to my heavenly redeemer jesus.my new address is 655 south archie street #8 vidor,texas 77662 or call day or night if anyone can help it's 4097839138.my kid's mean the world to me and i just want them to know i love them.
it's the mother here yet another 9 year's without my kid's
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just wanted to up date my info.7-24-2007 my address is 655 south archie street 8 vidor texas 77662 and my new phone is 14097831634,i'm doing my best to figh5t back and when i ever do see my kids i want them to know my love never failed them.
missing my kid's today,last night and every second i breath
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they are my life and without them here i'm not complete.if there's anyone out there that know's the law more than myself please i plead with you to help me get to see my kids.all i want is what's best for them and being around a sex affenser isn't what's good for them in fact it's down right stupid.my phone # is 14097831634 and my address is katherine greenwood 655 south archie street #8 vidor texas 77662 if anyone has advice or want's to help.the attorney keith ellis attorney at law can and will hep me for a fee of $2,500.00 and his # is 14097695411.
I PRAY IN JESUS HOLY NAME TO MAKE A WAY FOR SOMEONE WHO CAN HELP THE FEE OF MY ATTORNEY KEITH ELLIS AT 14097695411 WITH $1,200.00 DOLLOR'S SO I CAN AT LEST RESTORE MY VISIT'S WITH MY CHILDREN CAUSE I'M ON SSI AND UNABLE TO COME UP WITH THE MONEY TO PAY FOR MY ATTORNEY'S FEE.MY ADDRESS IS KATHERINE GREENWOOD AT 655 SOUTH ARCHIE STREET #8 VIDOR TEXAS 77662 AND MY NEW PHONE #14097832384 AND MY E-MAIL IS belairgirl2008@yahoo.com
I PRAY IN JESUS HOLY NAME TO MAKE A WAY FOR SOMEONE WHO CAN HELP THE FEE OF MY ATTORNEY KEITH ELLIS AT 14097695411 WITH $1,200.00 DOLLOR'S SO I CAN AT LEST RESTORE MY VISIT'S WITH MY CHILDREN CAUSE I'M ON SSI AND UNABLE TO COME UP WITH THE MONEY TO PAY FOR MY ATTORNEY'S FEE.MY ADDRESS IS KATHERINE GREENWOOD AT 655 SOUTH ARCHIE STREET #8 VIDOR TEXAS 77662 AND MY NEW PHONE #14097832384 AND MY E-MAIL IS belairgirl2008@yahoo.com
i'm kathleen,rebecca and rays mother and i'm still living at 655 south archie street #8 vidor texas 77662 and my phone #14097832384,my mother's phone 14099949659 in case my phone doesn't work there will always be a way to get ahold of me.my mother's name is carrie eaves from buna texas.my kids go to school in kirbyville texas.i praying and hoping someone who may know my children in kirbyville texas will get a message to them that i've alway's loved them and missed them so dearly.they are in my heart,mind each moment of each and every day.i need to come up with $1,200.00 to pay for my attorney here in vidor to go back to court to resume my visit's after 9 years of being without them in my life to which is very painful for me.some times i cry myself to sleep thinking of how they are.christmas is 4 more month's and those are the hardest times cause it will be 10 year's in december.i know my kid's want to see me and my ex-in-laws are so decietful againest me they will not even send me pictures of them and refuse my gift's.well i'll alway's keep in touch thank god for this web sight at lest when i ever get my kid's back they can ead all this and know i am fighting for them still.
I LOVE MY KID'S SO DEARLY IT'S LONELY WITHOUT THEM HERE,I TRY WRITING THEM BUT THEY REFUSE MY LETTER'S.ANY HOW I HAD TO CHANGE MY PHONE #14097832384.TODAYS DATE IS 7-31-2007
I LOVE MY KID'S SO DEARLY IT'S LONELY WITHOUT THEM HERE,I TRY WRITING THEM BUT THEY REFUSE MY LETTER'S.ANY HOW I HAD TO CHANGE MY PHONE #14097832384.TODAYS DATE IS 7-31-2007
going to church and i miss my kid's going with me!
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december will be going on 10 years without them,i put it completely in my heavenly father's hand's praying someone will one day come forth who want's to help me be reunited with them.there's never a moment i breath without them in my heart and soul.god blessed me the day they were born and as i bow my head to pray at the cross jesus knows my pain without them.jesus bless all who are going through the same injustice our court's have caused.the children are the real victims.if anyone ever wants to talk with me i can be reached at 14097832384 day or night.just ask for me katherine.kathleen is 16 and rebecca's 15 my son ray is 12.
he is a good man so maybe he will help me since knowone else seems to care,i'm fighting everyday and will never stop until there home with me.my phone # is 14097832384 my mailing address is 655 south archie street #8 vidor texas 77662
still pleading for someone to help me get my kid's out of true abuse
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my children are my life and even though we are not together in body i am with them in spirit alway's.i pray angel's are emcamped around my children bye his own devine hand.he who holds the star's and created all mankind will watch over them.i have hope one day in the near future they will be able to read these letter's on line and know i never gave up or stoped thinking of them.i've missed most of there live's all over how-decieving my ex-in-laws have been.i pray god has mercy on there souls befor it's to late.i'm not saying bye any mean's i'm perfect cause jesus was the only eal one.i'm thinking of my kid's a lot today.the other day i felt like one of my children was crying for me and that hurt,cause i couldn;t get to them.when i look at other people with there children and i cry inside for what my life would be like if my children were with me.i wish jesus would see fit to bring them home.
WANTED TO UPDATE MY INFO.I'M DOING FINE WAITING ON A LAW SUIT,BUT MAY TAKE YEARS WHO KNOWS.STAYING WITH A REAL GOOD FRIEND.HERE'S MY PHONE NUMBER 14097833835 AND MY ADDRESS IS 135 SOUTH ARCHIE STREET VIDOR TEXAS 77662.THERE'S NEVER A DAY THAT GOES BYE THAT I DO NOT THINK OF MY KID'S,WHAT THEY SMILE LIKE,WHAT THERE GRADES ARE,WHO THERE FRIENDS ARE,IF THERE CLOSE TO GOD.IT KILLS ME THAT I CAN'T HOLD THEM.PLEASE IF ANYONE CAN BE A SUPORT GROUP FOR ME PLEASE CALL I NEED PEOPLE WHO ARE GOING THROUGH THIS THEMSELVES.KATHLEENS17,REBECCA16 AND RAYS 13.
WANTED TO UPDATE MY INFO.I'M DOING FINE WAITING ON A LAW SUIT,BUT MAY TAKE YEARS WHO KNOWS.STAYING WITH A REAL GOOD FRIEND.HERE'S MY PHONE NUMBER 14097833835 AND MY ADDRESS IS 135 SOUTH ARCHIE STREET VIDOR TEXAS 77662.THERE'S NEVER A DAY THAT GOES BYE THAT I DO NOT THINK OF MY KID'S,WHAT THEY SMILE LIKE,WHAT THERE GRADES ARE,WHO THERE FRIENDS ARE,IF THERE CLOSE TO GOD.IT KILLS ME THAT I CAN'T HOLD THEM.PLEASE IF ANYONE CAN BE A SUPORT GROUP FOR ME PLEASE CALL I NEED PEOPLE WHO ARE GOING THROUGH THIS THEMSELVES.KATHLEENS17,REBECCA16 AND RAYS 13.
i still haven't seen my kid's since december of 1998
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i am still fighting to see my kid's after 11 year's,my ex-in-law's filed over 47 false child abuse report's on me in 1998 to get custody of my children.but casa of orange county tryed to get the children removed from the grandparent's home due to there strong finding's of the real child abuse was coming from there side not mine.my kid's are 18,17 and 14 now.i need other's to help me change our legal system so this doesn't happen to anyone else's kid's.you can write me at katherine greenwood 1010 waughn drive houston texas 77019 or e-mail me at katherinegreenwood@yahoo.com.
are there any suits against cps in upstate ny?if so how do i get involved?my boys were totaly traumatized by cps.they were in a mental place because of mental retardation and even though they knew they told them they could go home then turned around and said no,all because they were caught in a lie so they retaliated
my childrens dr.lied to cps in a letter useing my 2yr old to get my 5yr old into a mental instatution,she told cps that my daughter was at risk of severe brain damage,seizures,and blindness due to hydrocephalus.the funny thing is i have reports from the neurologist and from the new dr.who happens to be the head of pediatricks at a local hospital and it was proven that my little girl has a clean bill of health,this dr.also said my 5yr old was showing signs of early skitzophrenia because he had an emaginary friend,funny thing is she had him on adderall at the time and when i took him of it this dissapeared but cps still put him in a mental hospital for an evaluation.this whole thing could have been avoided if this investagator bothered to call the neurologist.I feel i should be able to charge him with child abuse for causing mental abuse,im so mad and i dont know what to do!this dr.lied so she would get the result she wanted which was to have my 5yr old evaluated,it seems like a violation of med ethics to me.any advice would be great
I find it very strange that you child has a diagnosis of Hydrocephalus and was given a "clean bill of health." As with the majority of the people who cry out against the "abuses of CPS," I don't think you are giving a full account of what has happened...lets all be a little more honest. I have been in child protection for over 10 years. And before you jump to conclusions and damn me to the pits of hell for "stealing kids," let me set the record straight:
1) It is NOT illegal to spank...despite the BS in the media...and no, I have NEVER removed a child because of a spanking.
2) CPS DOES NOT have quotas to fill...another false assumption made popular by people who are ill informed and looking for a scapegoat.
3) The "lies" that are perpetrated on these poor unsuspecting parents, like yourself, are generally found to be true...IF everyone is honest and forthcoming with ALL of the information.
4) I have NEVER seen a child hospitalized so that an evaluation could be completed for Ritalin...I know this because one of my children is on Ritalin.
I can't understand why a doctor would lie to get your child evaluated. I find it equally hard to believe that you child's "imaginary friend" was labeled as "early schizophrenia," a term I have never heard...and my degree is in psychology. You either have it or you don't. Schizophrenia does not come and go. Finally, I count you using 3 different doctors for you basis of knowledge. Do you move a lot, or just move doctors a lot? I think you need to be more honest with every one about this situation. IF this is absolutely the truth, then report your current doctor to the AMA, it’s on the net, and report your caseworker to his/her supervisor or Ombudsman's office.
where are you?before you call me a lier look at the reports that i have from a neurologist and the head of peds at ellis hospital in upstate ny.the neurologist even discharged her from his care stateing that there is no sign of hydrocephalus
The CPS still does not want anyone to know what they do, so as usual, this person is trying to debunk someone's story, without having the facts, something cws do on a daily basis, just to get the kids. Yes, I have heard of children being labed as "early schizoprenics" just for having imaginary friends. This dr was obviously trying to get the kids away, and apparently, succeeded. Whether he was under orders by cps to do so remains to be seen, but this is yet another dirty trick they employ. I have seen it happen time and time and time again.
As for children being on Ritalin, for many children, it does not work. This is only good for some children. In many cases, the cps is trying to get children diagnosed as "disabled," so that when they are adopted out, cps can get more federal funding. In many cases, where this is not the correct route to go, and cps persists, the children become violent reactive to the drug, and act out horrendously. I myself destroyed a daycare center at two years old on just ONE PILL.
Yet another child I cared for would routinely act out, becoming violent. He told me that when he becomes angry, he isn't himself anymore, ie; he blanks out. When an MRi was done on this child, it was found it wasn't behavioral, rather, it was chemical: the Ritalin was the culprit! They got him off of it, and he didn't have any more violent outbursts.
Still another child, who has been long known to be violent reactive, was seized by cps when his mother took him off of the drug, and put back on it by the cps, has been having very violent outbursts, and the judge has ordered this child off Ritalin, but cps has ignored this judge's orders, and the child is still on it, and not at home where he belongs, even though the judge has also ordered his and his sister's return to his parents. His sister was also seized because it seen as child abuse that she was getting monthly shots for precocious puberty since she was six, now for two years, and cps ceased the shots. So, guess what? She is now having her monthlies at just eight years old.
So, please Joe, tell us how this blatant disregard for the children's medical needs, and the horrible physical abuse at the hands of their foster parents (one incident resulted in the little girl suffering a broken arm, with no medical attention whatsoever) is in "the best interest of the children? Bulldooky, is what I say, Joe!
You socialnazi people are monsters ..you are destroying the poor in this country..does hile hitler mean anything to you? Leave us alown for Gods sake..ripping our children screaming from thier familia..destroying lives..Monsters all of you..God have mercy on you.
My children's medical care was also dismissed, ignored, manipulated according to the caseworker's whim.
When my children were taken, my son was due to see a specialist to be screened for a hereditary disorder, they cancelled the appointment and ignored my insistance that it be looked into. They also refused to screen him for low blood sugar, though it is indicated as another hereditary issue in my family and he was displaying symptoms.
They instead wanted to drug him, keep him on ritalin, prozac, etc....all to further the the case. My son was so debilitated when I was finally able to get him away from these monsters, that he is still recovering mentally and emotionally, still unable to function in school.
He's afraid to go to school, because the memory of sitting in class one moment, and kicking, screaming and clawing at the walls while being 'kidnapped' from 1st grade still haunts him. He suffers from PTSD as a result of the abduction, resulting on the physical need to vomit upon entry to school grounds, and intense pain.
This was followed by years of abuse by the foster home, years of drugs at the case worker's insistance, years of medical neglect.
The best advice I was ever given was:
1. Document everything
2. Don't be afraid to make it public. (they hate that. This is what cost our case worker her job, and what may be the basis of a law suit against the state.)
3. Retrieve records from the dr's, therapists, schools and hospitals they use while they "care" for your children.
4. Check their sources and be prepared to hear something you don't want to hear, but know that at some point you will probably find a discrepancy.
5. Even a public defender can work for you if you are willing to work for you
6. Make ALLOT of noise. .
7. Don't give them any bullets. They don't need to know anything you don't want them too, and they're quite skilled at making even the most benign things seem evil.
they are doing it to my little boy right now and wont let me be there
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What can I do Im going to go mad he was fine and he had to go stay at a different foster place for a weeek they alowed him to watch teh ring he woke up running threw the house screaming thats all I know now they have him in the hospitol doing reserch and wont let me be there . can u help me?
With reguards to my sister lisa,why did you run?In 2000 when the state wanted to take your kids who stood by you and took care of them so they did not go to foster care? US your family.who got called twice to go to the hospital with you for suspected overdose( which is what got the state going in the first place)me.Who steped in to keep all 3 of them together because your sister and her husband and I and my wife couldn't handle all 3 of them plus our own? our mother and farther. And what do we get in return? Pain and sufering.We've done everything we could to keep them out of state hands and you've done nothing to help us or to help your kids. Why? Why did you go 600 miles south?If you had stayed up here this mess never would have gone this far.Why do you go out of your way to make it as hard for mom and dad as you can?They dont want to raise your kids, but none of us will let them go to the state.You know they dont have alot of money but you need to claim the kids on your taxes just so ma cant? They need that money alot more than you do. So why did you do that?Punishment for ma and dad for keeping the kids out of foster care?
I dont understand.If you love the kids like you claim,why did you run away? Why do you make promisses you cant keep? Is once a week too much time out of your life to call them and let them know you care? AND what could be so important that you would cheat your own children out of money that they could have used to make their life a little brighter?
You haven't talked to me in over a year.My address,phone number and E-mail address hasn't changed but your's has.
Still be here when you get around to it.
LEO
You did good by not allowing state take those children. God know I would never allow my nieces or nephews be taken by state. God knows what could happen to them in hands of others. God Bless your family for what they are doing.
Cps is out of control here gone mad. They are ripping appart families at an alarming rate! Most people here are poor and have no resorces. The court appointed attorneys are at a loss about how to fight this evil system. They are destroying us!!!!!!!! They are terroizing our children and putting our intire families into nightmare everlasting nigtmare. To have our babies ripped screaming from our arms and then to go before judges that go to church with the foster families and the social workers. It is too much please let us form an alliance and form a protest and support system for all of the victoms of cps in New Mexico. Please contact me at arlene_bonner@stream.com or P.O Box 539 Hurley NM 88043.
I read your pitiful message on the stolen angels web site forum, and it touched my heart. My son is experiencing the same nightmare here in Ohio. His daughter has been in foster care for over two years!
I just wanted to share some resources with you that may be helpful.
www.intactfamilies.org
www.profane-justice.org
www.cpswatch.com
www.nationaloutrage.org
www.massoutrage.com
www.donttakeourkids.com
Please note that two of the links have .com extensions. Also, there is a newsgroup dedicated to this problem at alt.support.child-protective-services.
An attorney who is active in this fight is found at
www.plainlawtalk.com
His email address is
steele@plainlawtalk.com
Of course, Mr. Steele can only practice law in Oregon and one other state--I forget which--so he cannot represent anyone in New Mexico, but he may be able to give some good advice.
I hope some of this (or all of it) will prove helpful. You are in my prayers.
ORANGE COUNTY TEXAS JUDGE BUDDY HAUN DISREGARD'S CASA'S FINDING'S OF ABUSE AND GIVE'S THE
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MY KID'S ARE STILL AFTER 7 YEAR'S BEING ABUSED AND THERE'S NOTHING I CAN DO WITHOUT AN ATTORNEY.I LOST FULL COUSTODY OF MY CHILDREN AND THE LAST TIME THEY LET ME SEE MY KID'S WAS DECEMBER OF 1998 AND FORBID'S MY KID'S TO SPEAK OF THERE LOVE FOR ME.I'D ALREADY FOUGHT THEM AND WON FULL COUSTODY IN A JURY TRIAL IN JASPER COUNTY TEXAS THE YEAR BEFOR TO WHICH I DID HAVE AN ATTORNEY WHO DID MY TRIAL FOR FREE;[BUT MY CASE WAS TRANSFERED TO ORANGE COUNTY TEXAS WHERE JUDGE BUDDY HAUN ALLOWED THEM TO NOT ONLY DESTROY MY 2ND MARRIAGE WITH THERE LIE'S,BUT HE ALLOWED THEM TO FILE 47 FALSE REPORT'S OF EVERY KIND OF ABUSE YOU COULD THINK OF AND AT THE END OF MY SHORT LIVED LIFE WITH MY KID'S ENDED EXSPOSEING THE TRUTH THROUGH CASA VOLENTEER'S TO THE JUDGE REQUESTING TEMPORY FOSTER CARE UNTIL THEY COULD BE PLACED BACK WITH ME,BECAUSE OF THE REAL ABUSE BEING SEEN BY CASA THEMSELVES.SINCE CASA'S LAST FINDING'S JUDGE HAUN PUSHED CASA OUT,GAVE THEM FULL COUSTODY AND CLOSED MY CASE.PLEASE CALL ME AT 254-472-9847 IF YOU WISH TO HEAR MORE AND YOU OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW CAN HELP ME IN MY PERSUIT TO BRING AT REST TO 7 YEAR'S OF LONG AWAITED PAIN JUDGE HAUN'S ALLOWED.