can we talk p o r n?

It never used to bug me that my DH looked at this stuff but now it's beginning to get to me.

I mean, I think it's interfering with our bed room life, as in, he's not in the mood a lot of the time or dead tired etc.

I don't quiz him about if he's "taken" care of himself that day or what but when I talk with my close girlfriends about how often their DHs want to have s e x, they say it's practically daily and one said she has to be the one who initiates. Granted, I have only spoken to 3 so this isn't scientific.

The 2 who said almost daily, one DH says he doesn't want to look at p o r n, that his wife should be enough (uh, can this be true??) and the other I have no idea if he looks at anything.
The one who DH has to be approached admits to having a s e x addiction and looks at p o r n a lot.


Can we have a discussion on this? I want to hear opinions and if their DHs do frequently look at this stuff (what constitutes frequent anyways) does that mean less intimate time? and if they don't or seldom do, means more demands from you?

I just don't know what is normal.

Cerulean