i feel so sad to hear that anyone is going through this, but for someone on these boards to be going through this hurts my heart even more because life is so hard as it is with the IF struggle.
i'm truly, truly sorry for you.
my first question would be is going to counseling something that would help but i think the most important thing is how you feel in all this. do you want to stay with him? is there a mutual desire to work through it?
you deserve a loving, caring partner who makes you feel good about yourself. nothing less.
don't put anything that personal on facebook. dont do that to yourself. everyone will have soemthing to say and only you can make the choice as to what you want to do. what will come of throwing it up there? but definitely buy a little journal or book and write your thoughts and feelings in it, it may help you to put your thoughts and feelings on paper and re-read them.
thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers during this time. my hope is that you can do some serious soul searching and think about what you really want and whether he can give you what you need in your relationship. i know you love him, i hope you both can build off a MUTUAL love and work through this, if that is what you want. love yourself and follow your heart. be sure to surround yourself with a good support system, even if you dont want to tell anyone yet- i just feel bad at the thought that you might be spending time alone and i dont want that for you.