Dear Abby,

I attended my youngest sister's bachelorette party this weekend (I'm really not cut out for this anymore). We were giving my middle sister a ride home - she was tipsy and obnoxious. A fellow bridesmaid only had gingerale since she was hoping she was pg. My sister was "going off" on the ride home how could this girl not know? My middle sister had 2 kids effortlessly. Actually she has 2 younger than my 3.5 year old. According to her, she one day takes a test and poof there are 2 lines. She insists that she BDs and then 2 days later the 2 lines appear. I begin to correct her but see I am not making headway so I quit while I am ahead. I'm still sooo annoyed. DH thinks I need to let it go - but frankly I let a lot of things my sister says go. She is extremely insensitive and selfish. I don't know how we are related yet I would move mountains for her.

Signed, sincerely annoyed.