ditto to what's been said

I think you are a big sweetheart and that anon was out of line. Perhaps read your post too quickly maybe? Either way, THIS is why I dislike anon posts.

Don't let negative people stamp you down. You are a good woman and supportive. Figuratively poke them in the eye and don't let them bring you down (easy enough for me to say when not in the grips of hormones. Talk to me tomorrow and I may be all weepy. lol)

hugs and big ones
julie