E - this is so hard. All of it. Is it any wonder your D is sick of dealing with it too? You have been so strong and supportive for them! Your kids kept so much inside for so long, it makes sense that it could take time before it all comes out. Layers of feelings.
Your D can't just get meds - she has to see someone to get it prescribed. Let a pro help you both see what's right for her. I don't know if meds means she won't deal with it. Many of us moms are on meds, to keep our sanity, but we're still dealing with it. And the girls are still teens, which is no picnic without CSA.
Take comfort in knowing she is confiding in you! She has proved she has a lot of strength and generosity of spirit, but everyone gets overwhelmed sometimes.
big hugs
CG
Posted on Jun 30, 2009, 11:31 AM from IP address 68.255.175.251