Lilly, so sorry you have to go throught this. Im also sry to say that this is more real than any of us want it to be. The way this stuff is handled sometimes makes me feel as tho I am living with the flinstones, One would think that we as a society would be more enlightened. You attorney is correct in saying that you needto talk with Detectives more, And your councelor is correct in saying that your will disclose when she is comfortable doing so. Now that she is disclosing to you and custody is on the table I suggest talking to her and helping her understand how important it is that she tell the therapist/interviewrer the same things that she has told you .She may find it easier now that she has opened up to you about it. Let her know that it is safe to talk to T about it. If you can get her to maybe accept that she will need to do that then I say have them Interview her Again ASAP. If not KEEP a Journal of EVERTHING She says to you about it. And let the Det. know.
I got a lot of the same thing... nothing we can do about it. Its as if they are lazy and dont want to do any thourough invrestigations. Are there any otherchildren that your ex has been around that you think possibly may be victims as well? You say in your post that there is a child porn charge pending. Is that just for possesion of it? You may have to do some reasearch on your own as I have had to do You almost have to put it in there laps, at least that has been my experince. I hope this helps a bit I really think you need to have the T help you convonce her to do another interview. Hopefully before your custody case comes up.
hugs Debi
Posted on Jul 22, 2009, 5:42 AM from IP address 98.192.84.210
