Sorry your here, glad you found us. An exam is to late. Any 'evidence' they may find will be inconclusive (been there, done that). Document everything your D's say and do along with document the police, CPS, ect. Get your d's into therapy... FIND A GOOD ONE that deals with SA!!! No one suggested this to me until, IMO, it was to late. You want your D's to open up to the T so she can stand behind them in court. The feelings you are feeling are all normal... willing to say 100 % of us on here have or still have the same feelings. You probably should get yourself a T. If your x has no rights on T, get it done before he does. You don't need him influencing your girls before going to those appt.
Others on here will have tons of good advice for you.
Please get better.
Jack
Posted on Aug 20, 2009, 8:17 AM from IP address 72.24.105.99
