Sorry for your situation but welcome to our little group. I agree with Jack, get your kids to therapy as soon as possible, document everything there are a couple of post from blurbb that have very good advice on documenting and follow ups. Find a therapist that sppecializes on Sexual abuse cases, research or call CPS or some other place to find a very good one, your kids can disclose to the T and she will have documents for your legal case. There are some organizations out there that can provide you with help and advice.
I am sure others will give you better advice that me, but know that you are not alone your feelings are share with all of us and above all know that IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT.
Bella
Posted on Aug 20, 2009, 9:00 AM from IP address 20.137.18.52