confused,
first welcome to our group! noone here will judge you for your choices! we all have been through HELL and each struggles to maintain our sanity! we've all made mistakes/wrong choices and we all live with the consequences as a result. i am curious, how many children do you have and how old are they?!!
if you want to share all or some of your reasons for staying with your husband, it would help others to give a more accurate opinion of your situation! if you feel shame or embarassment and hesitate to share..plz don't...we've had several mom's in your situation here and none were judged as a result! the parents here are wonderful and very understanding!...that is not to say that all will 'agree' with your situation which doesn't matter...we all make the choices we feel best for ourselves and families...we all make mistakes in doing so...
just for your information, blurrrb feels strongly that your staying was wrong...and that's ok! she is not a parent, rather she is a victim of child sexual abuse...i just wanted you to be aware of that her perspective is far different than that of a parent, and rightfully so...
i am sorry for your pain and that of your family...
Posted on Sep 27, 2009, 5:44 PM from IP address 98.224.224.223
