Martha, you have come to the right place to seek help and have a ear to hear you out, welcome even when the circumtances are so horrible. First of all please do not blame yourself, we have all been there, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT, IT WAS HIS. It is good that you are taking your daughter to a therapist, make sure it is a therapist that specializes in CSA. Please come back as many times as you need.
I know the court process is long and grueling, and in your case more painful since your husband is the person involve, but if he confess things should go OK and in the end you and your kids will be able to move forward. My daughter's case just got close now that the pervert went to jail and I am looking forward to moving ahead and putting everything, one step at the time, behind us.
You will be in my prayers, and you will find great support in this forum.
Bella
Posted on Oct 27, 2009, 8:38 AM from IP address 208.247.58.25
