There are a number of moms on this board and a similar board that have gone through what you are going through. It is not unusual for kids who are victimized to themselves become the perpetrator. You are not alone. I don't have much advise for you because I am not in that situation but I do know other moms here and on the other board have traveled this road and will no doubt chime in and try to help you sort this out a little. For now, you need to make sure everyone is in counseling. Make sure the children are safe and that may mean sending the perpetrator to live with grandma/grandpa or someone until this starts to settle out and a therapist feels he is safe to be around your daughters again. It is very sad but your first step is to make sure everyone is safe from further harm and then move forward to healing.
Hang in there,
Dee
Posted on Oct 29, 2009, 6:58 PM from IP address 72.202.136.182
