The offender molested my oldest daughter almost 10 years ago. He is also the father of my youngest daughter now only a a couple of years away from the same age as when he did that to my oldest daughter. To this day he still blames me for his years in prison; I'm still intimated by him; he believes he has paternal rights to our daughter; and doesn't understand why I won't allow un-supervised visits with him.
He acts up every 6 months or so, I'm scared of him, I finally got to him to go to counseling with me (I've been asking for 2 years since he's been off probation); so he will understand that I'm being a healthy and protective Mom. And that he needs respect that and all my emotions, and hopefully he will have a different attitude about custody situation.
I'm pretty much a wreck right now; and skaking, because he will come un-glued when I finally confront the truth in front of a professional. It brings up all the feeling of 10 yrs ago...guess the PTSS...
simliar situations? help?
Thankyou, Sincerly....
Scared n' Good Mama
Posted on Nov 1, 2009, 5:50 PM from IP address 207.200.116.135
