Dear Brookie, Try to be gentle with yourself at this time. Gosh, we have all made mistakes when we were younger, please forgive yourself. Your ex-husband is the one who has something to worry about!! It might be a good idea for your daughters to stay off of the internet for now. The less exposure they have to your ex-husband the better! Victims need to be kept away from the perp. He can still do a lot of damage with his words.
Your daughter is lucky to have a mom who believes in her. Support her in her healing. Is she seeing a therapist? You need one as well to help you thru this difficult time. My entire family is in therapy at this time. Including my son who molested his little sister when she was 4 and he was 12. Even though he has admitted to the abuse and is cooperating with us we no longer see or talk to him. My daughter never showed improvement until she had no contact with him. Had we known at the time my son would have been taken out of our home. Be strong for your daughter! Get support for yourself and good luck with prosecuting the SOB! He deserves to go to prison and never come out! Laura
Posted on Feb 29, 2012, 1:01 PM from IP address 126.96.36.199