Jessica, Thank God you walked in on them! My step son molested and raped my 4 yr old daughter when he was 12. And because my daughter was so young we don't know for sure how long it went on. 14 yrs later my daughter has suffered so much-self harming -depression-suicide attempt. Had I known about the abuse then my step-son would NEVER have seen my daughters again. Instead he lived with us up until 3 yrs ago. And my daughter kept the secret all those years to protect him!
I agree that he probably has learned this behavior or been a victim himself. You are doing the right thing by keeping them apart and getting counseling. Don't back down! This boy should not be in your home. Laura
Posted on May 9, 2012, 1:10 AM from IP address 184.108.40.206