Our system of justice frightens me. If a parent molests one of his/her own children they should have no parental right to see their other childre. But that is not the case. Unless you have evidence of abuse to the other children they are not considered a threat to the others!!! Its a very sick system. I went through it 20 years ago. Im so sorry you have to deal with this. The pain will never go away. They hurt your baby and nothing can change that. You feel guilt anger denial and confusion! No one should have to ever deal with this! Do not go into denial as I did. It made it easier to deal with visitation and costly court battles. Beg and borrow to keep him away! The worst thing to do is have your abused child see the abuser.
Posted on May 9, 2012, 10:12 PM from IP address 188.8.131.52