you sound like a mommy who's instinct is righfully on high alert and sensing things that no one else in the world is. your daughter is not only telling the TRUTH but reaching out for help. glad you're listening and acting as much as you can. since the visitation is court ordered(correct?)then your hands are tied to a degree(thats a nightmare that i dont want to ever live)...im actually 'supervising' visits living in the same house with perp until i can get his rights taken away(NEVER allowing him to be alone with the kids...read some of my other posts)... are you able to supervise the visits at all? if so, please DO. when a child acts out in that manner, A PERP IS DEFINATELY LURKING! a child does NOT 'invent' masturbation ...it was shown to her/done to her! she needs to have those visits supervised AT ALL TIMES if she cant be removed out of harms way IMMEDIATELY.authorities/police/courts have a job(very poor at doing).you have a child that is communicating with you regularly!!keep up the hard mommy work you're doing. a perp will continue to attack or attempt to. perp(father?) has probably preyed on others too(the cousin)....let him/them know you wont give up! best wishes to you.
Posted on Jun 29, 2012, 2:54 PM from IP address 184.108.40.206